"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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stiff neck from shrugs

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can some one plz tell me how to do shrugs the right way. becuse last night i was going shrugs in the gym and today i got a major stiff neck passed out couple of times. I really dont wana get this **** again
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well, how are you doing them in the first place?
 

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ok i am going to try to explain it. i take 2 45 pound weights on on each side and just reise them up, when i am at the top i place my chin on my cest ( read that in mans health magasizen says it lovers the presaseure)
 

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Well if you're not stretching your neck before and after the exercise, then that's a good place to start.
 

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point your chin down slightly & look forward, keep your neck still, hold the dumbells slightly in front of you, squeeze your traps, hold for a count and slowly descend. DO NOT rotate your shoulders, DO NOT jerk the weight, maintain with steady & controlled movements.

if you pinch a nerve use something with capsicum, maye "salonpas" heating pads.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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