"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sticky Stiuation w/ New Girl

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I started talking with HB9 while me and my ex we're talking still. HB9 was dealing with her ex too. Me and HB9 were hitting it off nicely until one lonely night i hung out with my ex. HB9 heard about me and my ex and hung out with her ex because she was afraid i'll be gone.

So now finally I completely got rid of my ex. Told her to never call me again (long story short: she cheated 4 times, etc) I'm never going to see my ex again.

Me and HB9 have been talking the whole time while we were dealing with our exes. But now mines out of the picture, hers isn't.

Her ex is telling her that's it's gonna be better and we can do this. But he's talking to like 4 chicks, banging girls left and right, and lies to HB9 about it.

HB9 is confused and might be afraid of change and doesn't know.

How should i act during the time she doesn't know what she wants?
All of HB9's friend know that it won't ever work out, her ex has been slutting it up, etc.

People don't change and her ex isn't going to change for her.

This is just my side project. I'm talking to a couple other HBs.

So how should i act in this situation?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This is just my side project. I'm talking to a couple other HBs.
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And you're mad because she's talking to another guy?

Doesn't irony suck?

Me and HB9 have been talking the whole time
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Just because you're "talking" doesn't mean you stop seeing other girls!! (Though you shouldn't talk to that nasty ex, anyway.)

She ain't your gf. Don't push her to stop talkin to her ex - yet.

Wait until you get more serious. Don't try to rush in to a monogamous relationship with this girl. That's her job. When she's your gf, you can tell her to respect you by breakin it off with her ex.
 
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We don't mention our exes when we're with each other or talking. We just know what goes on behind the scenes.
 
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Lying and deceit before you are even going out.. I LOVE where this is going!!!
And did anyone else expect a different kind of story with "Sticky Situation"???
 
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Didn't you just break up with your ex?

Why are you already thinking of getting into another relationship.


Personally, I would take a break. Be free for a while and take it easy. Meet some women and just have some fun. Don't jump into another relationship right away. Just chill.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dude, if you were unsure of a situation or down about something or confused about something how would you want someone to treat you? try taking her to do something fun to get her mind off it (don't specifically tell her its to get her mind off it if thats what you were thinking) thats what I would want. Once your out having fun, it will be off her mind, and you can proceed as normal. when i say out having fun, i mean like the carnival or batting cages or go cart racing - something literally fun - dinner and movies isn't fun (i try to tell my homies this) - they pass the time between lays with a steady girl when there is nothing fun to do, ya feel me niggs?
 
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Sweep her off her feet and she'll forget about the sucker.

Be the man she's dreamed about and all this struggle will come to an end and you can hold her in your arms with no other worries.

How do you sweep her off her feet?
Be the prince she's read about in stories for little girls...
Be strong, bold, LEAD... believe in yourself...
Care about her... get to really know her... Know what she wants from life... know what she is really about... understand her... make her feel understood... give her all the affection and attention she needs...

and she will reward you back...
she will forget everyone else... and sex is very close from there...
after that there's no turning back... she will be marvelled by the prince she has found...

if this doesn't work out as fast as you need to save this situation ... at least other HB'es will enjoy how valuable you are to their lives...

take care and act now!
 
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drummer said:
Lying and deceit before you are even going out.. I LOVE where this is going!!!
And did anyone else expect a different kind of story with "Sticky Situation"???
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It's not lying, We both know not to talk about exes because we need to change, move on, and talking about our exes would kill attraction.
 
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