"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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im going out on friday with a girl from school who i know, at least had a crush on me. im not sure but ive heard she had a boyfriend, not serious though. My question is how would i find out if shes just going out with me as a friend or if she wants more. Should i just openly ask her or is there an alternative, i dont want to scare her off.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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fvcking forget the boyfriend, act like she doesnt have one, dont say anything about him.. boyfriends come and go.. its so easy to steal girls... easy to steal, harder to hold
 
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but should i continue as if this were a date or just friends going out. How could i find out without making her feel uncomfortable
 
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For example. Should you still go for a kiss. If not on the lips on the cheek, or should you not even try it?
 
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Originally posted by CoRVeTTe6699
fvcking forget the boyfriend, act like she doesnt have one, dont say anything about him.. boyfriends come and go.. its so easy to steal girls... easy to steal, harder to hold
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fuc_k u 2, you are a nice person arent u

if she has not said to you she has a boyfriend, either ask her or go for th kiss, the choice is yours. Dont worry about getting rejected its all a learning experiance.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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girls dont waste time going out with guys if they just want to be friends.... unless shes using u for something
 
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