"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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im going out on friday with a girl from school who i know, at least had a crush on me. im not sure but ive heard she had a boyfriend, not serious though. My question is how would i find out if shes just going out with me as a friend or if she wants more. Should i just openly ask her or is there an alternative, i dont want to scare her off.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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fvcking forget the boyfriend, act like she doesnt have one, dont say anything about him.. boyfriends come and go.. its so easy to steal girls... easy to steal, harder to hold
 
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but should i continue as if this were a date or just friends going out. How could i find out without making her feel uncomfortable
 
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For example. Should you still go for a kiss. If not on the lips on the cheek, or should you not even try it?
 
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Originally posted by CoRVeTTe6699
fvcking forget the boyfriend, act like she doesnt have one, dont say anything about him.. boyfriends come and go.. its so easy to steal girls... easy to steal, harder to hold
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fuc_k u 2, you are a nice person arent u

if she has not said to you she has a boyfriend, either ask her or go for th kiss, the choice is yours. Dont worry about getting rejected its all a learning experiance.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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girls dont waste time going out with guys if they just want to be friends.... unless shes using u for something
 
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