Sticky Situation

[Jug_head_man]

Hey doods, so I recently graduated uni and i've had to move home for a bit while looking for work. Seeing as how play is hard to come by while being in a small town i've been doing some searching online. I came across an old crush from freshman year. I met her through a friend and we had instant chemistry but on the day I went to picker her up from her uni, she made an excuse and bailed. We basically stopped talking after that and shes currently single. 2 years ago I went to her university town and hit her up after a house party but she didnt seem like she was all that into it.

My question is how do I got about initiating contact with her without being creepy? I've tried to pull on facebook before but they always end up deleting me or not responding to my messages. I lost her number so thats not an option. My distant friend is best friends with her but I think hes got a major crush so I cant ask him. This girl is the type you'd marry not f*ck & run so im trying to treat her with respect.

Input?

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Grow some balls and meet women in your city, I don't care how small your town is, you should be able to find women.

 

[Iceberg]

Hey doods, so I recently graduated uni and i've had to move home for a bit while looking for work. Seeing as how play is hard to come by while being in a small town i've been doing some searching online. I came across an old crush from freshman year. I met her through a friend and we had instant chemistry but on the day I went to picker her up from her uni, she made an excuse and bailed. We basically stopped talking after that and shes currently single. 2 years ago I went to her university town and hit her up after a house party but she didnt seem like she was all that into it.

My question is how do I got about initiating contact with her without being creepy? I've tried to pull on facebook before but they always end up deleting me or not responding to my messages. I lost her number so thats not an option. My distant friend is best friends with her but I think hes got a major crush so I cant ask him. This girl is the type you'd marry not f*ck & run so im trying to treat her with respect.

Input?

She bailed on you the first time you went to hang with her. Then you tried to call her when you were in town for a house party, and she didn't seem up for it.

And now you're talking about how she's "the type you'd marry" and you're trying to treat her with respect.

So here's my first question...and I want you to answer it - Is this a joke?

I don't care how great you THOUGHT the chemistry was 200 years ago. It resulted in jack s**t. Maybe it's time to throw this one back in the lake, buddy.

 

[Jug_head_man]

Hahaha, I understand what you're saying loud and clear. I come from a town of 600 and am in loan debt but you're right, thats no excuse.

Iceberg - Nahh man no jokes! There are girls you f#ck and there are girls you marry. By no means do I want to marry this girl, im just saying shes that type. Shes just a girl thats always been in the back of my head. I've never had chemistry like that before. Coming from the greek system, I didnt exactly get to communicate with the brightest of the bunch.

Im just looking for a smooth way to initiate contact again. If I got her in person, I could seal the deal but we've always had distance.