"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sticking Points

Tallerguy

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Here are my current sticking points. I wanted to get them out their so I will work on them harder.

• Generally drink too much and don’t wait for IOI’s, Stop Drinking
• Don’t eject just vibe, Wait through pauses. Allow the HB to re start the conversation
• Don’t offend obstacles, befriend them, and joke with them. Including guys
• Rewards with Kino and chastise with IOD
• Use false time constraints, you don’t do this enough
• Don’t become the entertainer.
• Think BL all the time. Don’t face feet towards her too quick, she must earn it
• Stop asking “don’t you think” or asking for validation when asking questions
• Don’t ignore pivots.
• Be more selective on targets, Only 8, 9 & 10’s

Any comments/Advice welcome. Also add your own and we will see if we have some common areas to work on together.

Tallerguy UK
"He who hesitates, masturbates"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Distant Light

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Its good to know that some people are out there learning and in field.

I think you shouldnt be so selective, I'd say 6-10 is good enough that way you can do warm ups first.

Some of my Sticking Points
- Approach axiety
- Get better in A3 Phase
- Stop pre maturely ejecting
- BL (For some reason always alittle shaky)
- Passing certain **** test

Thats the main sticking points i have right now.
 

Ricky

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I am considering ditching canned openers because they don't bridge well into other conversations for me.

I've closed alot better using observational stuff, and a few questions.

My big sticking point now is that if i could get one girl in isolation from the get go i can close her much better. I hate having to deal with 2 or 3 at a time.

This is why I think i could seduce better in daytime if i ramp up the number of approaches. I can work my best material when i got the girl one on one.
 
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