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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

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Sticking Points

Tallerguy

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Here are my current sticking points. I wanted to get them out their so I will work on them harder.

• Generally drink too much and don’t wait for IOI’s, Stop Drinking
• Don’t eject just vibe, Wait through pauses. Allow the HB to re start the conversation
• Don’t offend obstacles, befriend them, and joke with them. Including guys
• Rewards with Kino and chastise with IOD
• Use false time constraints, you don’t do this enough
• Don’t become the entertainer.
• Think BL all the time. Don’t face feet towards her too quick, she must earn it
• Stop asking “don’t you think” or asking for validation when asking questions
• Don’t ignore pivots.
• Be more selective on targets, Only 8, 9 & 10’s

Any comments/Advice welcome. Also add your own and we will see if we have some common areas to work on together.

Tallerguy UK
"He who hesitates, masturbates"
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Distant Light

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Its good to know that some people are out there learning and in field.

I think you shouldnt be so selective, I'd say 6-10 is good enough that way you can do warm ups first.

Some of my Sticking Points
- Approach axiety
- Get better in A3 Phase
- Stop pre maturely ejecting
- BL (For some reason always alittle shaky)
- Passing certain **** test

Thats the main sticking points i have right now.
 

Ricky

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I am considering ditching canned openers because they don't bridge well into other conversations for me.

I've closed alot better using observational stuff, and a few questions.

My big sticking point now is that if i could get one girl in isolation from the get go i can close her much better. I hate having to deal with 2 or 3 at a time.

This is why I think i could seduce better in daytime if i ramp up the number of approaches. I can work my best material when i got the girl one on one.
 
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