Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Sticking Points

Tallerguy

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Here are my current sticking points. I wanted to get them out their so I will work on them harder.

• Generally drink too much and don’t wait for IOI’s, Stop Drinking
• Don’t eject just vibe, Wait through pauses. Allow the HB to re start the conversation
• Don’t offend obstacles, befriend them, and joke with them. Including guys
• Rewards with Kino and chastise with IOD
• Use false time constraints, you don’t do this enough
• Don’t become the entertainer.
• Think BL all the time. Don’t face feet towards her too quick, she must earn it
• Stop asking “don’t you think” or asking for validation when asking questions
• Don’t ignore pivots.
• Be more selective on targets, Only 8, 9 & 10’s

Any comments/Advice welcome. Also add your own and we will see if we have some common areas to work on together.

Tallerguy UK
"He who hesitates, masturbates"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Distant Light

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Its good to know that some people are out there learning and in field.

I think you shouldnt be so selective, I'd say 6-10 is good enough that way you can do warm ups first.

Some of my Sticking Points
- Approach axiety
- Get better in A3 Phase
- Stop pre maturely ejecting
- BL (For some reason always alittle shaky)
- Passing certain **** test

Thats the main sticking points i have right now.
 

Ricky

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I am considering ditching canned openers because they don't bridge well into other conversations for me.

I've closed alot better using observational stuff, and a few questions.

My big sticking point now is that if i could get one girl in isolation from the get go i can close her much better. I hate having to deal with 2 or 3 at a time.

This is why I think i could seduce better in daytime if i ramp up the number of approaches. I can work my best material when i got the girl one on one.
 
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