"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sticking Point

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navyseal2101

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Lately I've been lacking the drive to pursue women past a number close. I enjoy the attraction phase, get the number and just never feel like calling, so instead I go get more numbers and never call them idk why. Its unmistakable that I know basically all the girls are attracted, the only one I wasn't sure of was the one I posted on, so I know it isn't any kind of fear of rejection. It's like I feel it's not worth it to bother calling. Is it possible I need a break or has anybody had a similar experience?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A break from the game can help anyone out, but you probably don't need one. A girl who is good enough, once you meet her, will ultimately drive you to call her back after getting her number. But I'm in the same boat as you, I've pulled about three numbers recently, called none of them back. One even friended me on facebook, though hasn't written on my wall or messaged me. But yeah, for me, its because I haven't attracted someone good enough. There's a girl I'm looking at, but I can't get her.
 
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What happened with me for a while is I would only sarge FOR numbers because it's cool once you learn to do it efficiently. Especially in front of friends. Then afterward, it's kinda like "Meh, I'll just get more numbers later." And thats it.

I forced myself to call some and go on second, third, etc. dates and have physical relationships with them (dang... physical relationships :p)

But seriously, once you force yourself to actually pursue some of these girls and end up getting some ALL THE TIME... you'll get over your "sticking point".
 
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