"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sticking Point

navyseal2101

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Lately I've been lacking the drive to pursue women past a number close. I enjoy the attraction phase, get the number and just never feel like calling, so instead I go get more numbers and never call them idk why. Its unmistakable that I know basically all the girls are attracted, the only one I wasn't sure of was the one I posted on, so I know it isn't any kind of fear of rejection. It's like I feel it's not worth it to bother calling. Is it possible I need a break or has anybody had a similar experience?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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LostAndConfused

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A break from the game can help anyone out, but you probably don't need one. A girl who is good enough, once you meet her, will ultimately drive you to call her back after getting her number. But I'm in the same boat as you, I've pulled about three numbers recently, called none of them back. One even friended me on facebook, though hasn't written on my wall or messaged me. But yeah, for me, its because I haven't attracted someone good enough. There's a girl I'm looking at, but I can't get her.
 

Supremo

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What happened with me for a while is I would only sarge FOR numbers because it's cool once you learn to do it efficiently. Especially in front of friends. Then afterward, it's kinda like "Meh, I'll just get more numbers later." And thats it.

I forced myself to call some and go on second, third, etc. dates and have physical relationships with them (dang... physical relationships :p)

But seriously, once you force yourself to actually pursue some of these girls and end up getting some ALL THE TIME... you'll get over your "sticking point".
 
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