"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sticking Point

navyseal2101

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Lately I've been lacking the drive to pursue women past a number close. I enjoy the attraction phase, get the number and just never feel like calling, so instead I go get more numbers and never call them idk why. Its unmistakable that I know basically all the girls are attracted, the only one I wasn't sure of was the one I posted on, so I know it isn't any kind of fear of rejection. It's like I feel it's not worth it to bother calling. Is it possible I need a break or has anybody had a similar experience?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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LostAndConfused

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A break from the game can help anyone out, but you probably don't need one. A girl who is good enough, once you meet her, will ultimately drive you to call her back after getting her number. But I'm in the same boat as you, I've pulled about three numbers recently, called none of them back. One even friended me on facebook, though hasn't written on my wall or messaged me. But yeah, for me, its because I haven't attracted someone good enough. There's a girl I'm looking at, but I can't get her.
 

Supremo

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What happened with me for a while is I would only sarge FOR numbers because it's cool once you learn to do it efficiently. Especially in front of friends. Then afterward, it's kinda like "Meh, I'll just get more numbers later." And thats it.

I forced myself to call some and go on second, third, etc. dates and have physical relationships with them (dang... physical relationships :p)

But seriously, once you force yourself to actually pursue some of these girls and end up getting some ALL THE TIME... you'll get over your "sticking point".
 
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