"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Steroids: Ever done them?

JohnnyStorm

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As per title, I've been thinking a bit recently about the kind of guys that grace the covers of muscle and fitness magazine's portraying a body image that is certainly unrealistic (it's a photoshoot after all) and perhaps even unattainable for someone who isn't taking steroids. Do any of you guys roid up? If so, are you worried about the side effects and are steroids commonplace in gyms now?

Personally, I enjoy working out. But I do it for me, the day I start agonizing over muscle definition and start taking selfies is the day I'll stop doing it. But then I'm not training to be a bodybuilder where at the highest level any substance that gives me an advantage could perhaps be worth considering.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TheStig

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Nope. I have nothing against guys that do but I'm just not into all that.
 

Colossus

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I have. I'm "retired" for now. I was an active powerlifter and I wanted to take my game to the next level. I had lifted drug free for about 7 years and gained around 50+ lbs of muscle before I ever touched steroids.

They certainly work. But they are hormones with complex pathways and shouldn't be taken lightly. are they as dangerous as they are made out to be? Not really. But they are not completely safe drugs either. There are no safe drugs. Everything has risks and a potential benefit.

I don't advocate anybody use them unless they have been training for 7 or 8 years and really have tried to maximize their genetic potential.
 

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JohnnyStorm said:
As per title, I've been thinking a bit recently about the kind of guys that grace the covers of muscle and fitness magazine's portraying a body image that is certainly unrealistic (it's a photoshoot after all) and perhaps even unattainable for someone who isn't taking steroids. Do any of you guys roid up? If so, are you worried about the side effects and are steroids commonplace in gyms now?
I have never taken steroids and yet I was able to achieve a similar physique you see on muscle and fitness magazine covers. For me it took sheer dedication, intense training and a clean healthy diet and most importantly patience if you want to get like this. Stay committed...Simple as!
 
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