suaveplayer
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no, seriously. how do you get it? (dont want the hardcore party route-no drinking no drugs plz)
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
steps to get a social life?
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- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
You just have to be outgoing, that's all there is to it. Don't be afraid to kino, I came up with a theory that when you meet someone, you can get closer to them JUST by physically being closer to them. How physically close you are with someone can sometimes indirectly reflect how close you are on the relationship status. I still hang out with some high schoolers, I got introduced to this one girl yesterday and I was just being an out going guy and when she hugged me after we left, she was rubbing my back, which is an IOI.
There's two ways you can be popular in high school; social proof and being the type of person everyone likes. Being the second type of person is the MUCH better way to be popular because it'll develop your social skills while social proof disappears after high school. Beware though that nothing is better than social proof; just that high school social proof is useless after, well, high school.
There's two ways you can be popular in high school; social proof and being the type of person everyone likes. Being the second type of person is the MUCH better way to be popular because it'll develop your social skills while social proof disappears after high school. Beware though that nothing is better than social proof; just that high school social proof is useless after, well, high school.
phatboi408
Senior Don Juan
Social proof is key to high school. and in college too, but in college its somewhat easier. So you have to be outgoing, and meet people and hang out with them and then youll eventually get in someones group and value starts to add to you. You have to explain to us who you are withing the social groups and stuff.
phatboi408
Senior Don Juan
Social proof is key to high school. and in college too, but in college its somewhat easier. So you have to be outgoing, and meet people and hang out with them and then youll eventually get in someones group and value starts to add to you. You have to explain to us who you are withing the social groups and stuff.
suaveplayer
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bummppppppity bump
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
suaveplayer
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play sports, join clubs (even if you are not that into them) as long as you are laid back and not a jerk you will make friends, get numbers, your social circle will grow, might even get invited to places to hang out etc. Also consider taking dancing lessons as those classes always are full of girls and are a great way to make female friends.
myself personally i am in college and this month im going to join as many clubs as i can, hiking club, tennis, badminton, poker, maybe snowboarding, and was also going to join the tango club but time won't allow.
myself personally i am in college and this month im going to join as many clubs as i can, hiking club, tennis, badminton, poker, maybe snowboarding, and was also going to join the tango club but time won't allow.