suaveplayer
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no, seriously. how do you get it? (dont want the hardcore party route-no drinking no drugs plz)
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
steps to get a social life?
- Thread starter suaveplayer
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
You just have to be outgoing, that's all there is to it. Don't be afraid to kino, I came up with a theory that when you meet someone, you can get closer to them JUST by physically being closer to them. How physically close you are with someone can sometimes indirectly reflect how close you are on the relationship status. I still hang out with some high schoolers, I got introduced to this one girl yesterday and I was just being an out going guy and when she hugged me after we left, she was rubbing my back, which is an IOI.
There's two ways you can be popular in high school; social proof and being the type of person everyone likes. Being the second type of person is the MUCH better way to be popular because it'll develop your social skills while social proof disappears after high school. Beware though that nothing is better than social proof; just that high school social proof is useless after, well, high school.
There's two ways you can be popular in high school; social proof and being the type of person everyone likes. Being the second type of person is the MUCH better way to be popular because it'll develop your social skills while social proof disappears after high school. Beware though that nothing is better than social proof; just that high school social proof is useless after, well, high school.
phatboi408
Senior Don Juan
Social proof is key to high school. and in college too, but in college its somewhat easier. So you have to be outgoing, and meet people and hang out with them and then youll eventually get in someones group and value starts to add to you. You have to explain to us who you are withing the social groups and stuff.
phatboi408
Senior Don Juan
Social proof is key to high school. and in college too, but in college its somewhat easier. So you have to be outgoing, and meet people and hang out with them and then youll eventually get in someones group and value starts to add to you. You have to explain to us who you are withing the social groups and stuff.
suaveplayer
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bummppppppity bump
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
suaveplayer
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play sports, join clubs (even if you are not that into them) as long as you are laid back and not a jerk you will make friends, get numbers, your social circle will grow, might even get invited to places to hang out etc. Also consider taking dancing lessons as those classes always are full of girls and are a great way to make female friends.
myself personally i am in college and this month im going to join as many clubs as i can, hiking club, tennis, badminton, poker, maybe snowboarding, and was also going to join the tango club but time won't allow.
myself personally i am in college and this month im going to join as many clubs as i can, hiking club, tennis, badminton, poker, maybe snowboarding, and was also going to join the tango club but time won't allow.