"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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hey guys, some advice would be great, i've been at this stuff for ages but this situation has got me before and i'm making sure it won't get me again now.

I met this girl through a mutual friend. Wasn't romantically interested to start with but became so, we talked more and more then I went overseas for several weeks and also talked whilst I was away. The night I get back I made out with her at a club...2 and a bit weeks later and today was the first time she was free for the old day 2, we caught up briefly and whilst there was plenty of conversation, i didn't feel at all like I reached a hook point. How should i best go about stepping things up and avoiding the LJBF...i had a similar problem to this last year and when LJBFing me the girl said i was more serious than she was and didn't 'communicate', however i think doing that is very very very AFC...help!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Make sure you let her know you have other options without coming out directly and saying it. In fact, go get some other options and then date them.

Let her know that you think she's cool and something could work out if she played her cards right, but that she probably won't so you don't want to move too fast.

This will make her work for it.
 
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