"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Here I go! Wish me well. I know what my sticking points are. They will become strengths. Strengths! Although I've been out of action for a while, I mean to get back in the swing of things in a MAJOR way.

This is going to be an occasional journal of loose odds and ends. I want this journal to be fun. Fun! Fun!! Ha!! I'll post entries every once in a while.


Last weekend.

Went out "sarging." Whatever that means. I have a wingman now, maybe two, plus a pivot, or maybe two. I was slow to warm up but things got swingin' real fast.

I was watching something on TV at the first bar, and some chick taps me on the shoulder. It's a lady probably mid 30's. She asks me, with a somber expression, to take a photo of her and her friend. Just for fun, I tell her I'm charging $5. She frowns, or pouts and just stares at me. Then she walks away. I keep watching TV.

Set #1: Cougar Opens Me

A couple minutes later, I decide to "make it up to them." I tell the girl who opened me that I was watching something I was really into. She looks sad, but highly receptive, as she is nodding her head up and down energetically, but with sad eyes. I smile to warm them up.

This lady, along with her other somewhat cute but very slightly plump friend, are warming up to me fast. The first lady is kinoing me like crazy. Holding my hand with both hands, and running her hand up and down my chest. Oooh! Her friend is giving me a big, toothy smile.

I know these cougars are down for some action, but I don't want to invest too much time. I see some sports highlights on tv and yell "ALL RIGHT!"

Set #2: Petite Blonde
Now, a short, petite blonde looks over her shoulder to stare at me wide-eyed. I know I have to open her. I go over and say hi. Again, she passes the kino test. That is, I hold her hand, and she squeezes my hand, instead of letting go. I steal her chair, and tease her about it. She says it's ok. I kino escalate with a hug, feel up her arms, as she stands between my legs while I'm seated.

I qualify her. She tells me some cool things about herself, and I reward her by saying that things do make her unique. She says that she would like to talk with me somewhere "private," meaning an f close.

I get her number, and tell her we will set something up for later. She introduces me to her friends. Now, she has another petite blonde friend who is even cuter than she is. However, in the past, I've had issues of dropping targets and losing both girls. So I keep my focus.

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Third Set:
Don't remember what happened next, but I'm walking around and open another set. This is a two set of tall girls, one brunette, one black girl. Both are pretty hot. Especially the brunette. I notice that the brunette gets upset and begins to pout whenever I talk to her black girlfriend and not her. They are about to go to a house party so I have to work fast. I get the number of the brunette and give both girls a hug.

...I return to the two cougars. I try to bounce them to another venue. The second heavier girl says that the two of them are just talking and not interested in meeting guys. Right. I don't want to invest too much time, so I basically leave. She tries to keep me and my wing in set, but I don't want to invest. I leave.

Fourth Set:
I bounce to another club with my wing. There are plenty of two sets all over the place. I see two cute, young girls. I open direct:

"you girls are absolutely beautiful. I'm going to talk to you now."

The two girls are especially receptive, especially the caucasian girl. Her asian girlfriend has a funny, sh#t faced grin while I talk to the two of them, but is otherwise silent.

Now, I drop my drink, get embarrassed by it and it throws me off a bit. The caucasian girl I'm talking to says "oh, that's all right" and claims funnily that she barely noticed it. She wants me to keep talking. Anyway, I talk to both girls for a minute, but basically excuse myself since I feel self conscious about my little drink spill. Oh well.

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Anyway, good times. I could've spent more time with the first two cougars and escalated, but I wasn't really interested in creating "rapport" with these two girls. It's not solid game, more like flash game, but it was fun and good practice. You should always try to run solid game, no matter what.

The petite blonde always returns calls and texts immediately. As in, a few seconds after she receives them. She wants to "connect" with me, lol. So I know it's on. Whenever I want. There are a couple things in her background which make me hesitate a bit (as in substances) but who doesn't have some issue in the past?

The tall brunette is not replying after a couple texts. I'll continue to text and probably call at some point. No big deal either way.

More good times to come.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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keep up the good work

practice makes perfect my friend.
 

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Roll Solo Manifesto

^^Thanks bruddah.

Now, onto my post:

All right, I got a wing who knows about the game. Which is good. The bad news is, he knows about the game. He takes it literally. Like, when he reads some ad or some hype, he thinks it's THE TRUTH. As in, these guys can literally pull any girl at any time in five seconds.

And he thinks he can do it too. This silly naivete is useful, since he wants to go out a lot, and this means I have a wing pretty much anytime I roll. On the other hand, he is such a goofy, manipulative, immature little sneaky rat I wouldn't trust him with a dime.

I always say it, but rarely do it: I should roll solo. But almost never do.

Yesterday, he entered one of my conversations, and the girl looked as if she had smelled a massive fart roll by. She winced as if she had been stuck with a cattle prod. Not good. Normally, he's not this bad, but I really need to work the courage up to roll solo. I've done it before and I've been able to pull girls before, but it always seems more comfortable to roll with people you already know.
 
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Passive-Aggressive Wing

So here's what happened. I was supposedly "winging" with this guy from the community. The thing is, his game really sucks. Every time I opened a girl, he would butt in. The girl would get turned off instantly, and that would end the conversation right then and there.

He has done this many times now, even though I've politely asked him not to. After he does this, he will say something goofy along the lines of: "man, she was really diggin' me!" This dude is straight up delusional.

This goof actually stalked a girl who had blown him out, then followed her back to the store she was working at! She blew him out AGAIN, then said: dude, she was so shy!" Yes, she was shy! That's why her BACK was turned to you and she refused to talk to you!

Anyway, he did number close a very portly chick the size of a high school running back, then bragged: "dude, I got a number close! But you didn't!"
Seriously, this guy is like 25 going on 12. This convinces me to roll solo.
 
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Bisexual Dude Games Me

Went out Thursday. It was more of a chill night with my friends rather than a pua/sarge night. :)

Anyway, my friends sit down at a table, and the people from the other table opposite with us chat us up, as there are very few people out that night, for whatever reason (I guess a bit chilly).

A couple of people start up a conversation with me. One is a girl with her boyfriend. We start chatting about places we've visited, basically general chit chat, fun chat on a slow, relaxed evening.

The second person to start up a conversation with me is a dude who's new in town from NYC. Very chill dude, who has a background in finance. He tells me how much he loves it here, blah blah blah.

This is where it gets a bit strange. I ask him if the women in NYC are as beautiful as people claim. He says yes! they are, but they are stuck up.

As he is saying this, he first leans in, then points in my direction, then begins to touch my hand, then begins to caress and then squeeze my hand. These are the types of IOI's I usually receive from women who are going to have sex with me.

I'm not going to recoil, or get all weirded out by this, but he continues doing this, and eventually I have to excuse myself to get a drink. I return, but this time sit opposite, far from him.

Then, he starts hitting on my ex girlfriend, and working on her!

Anyway, I thought it was pretty clear that this dude was bisexual, and was willing to game both men and women! Good times, man. Good times...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You did fuvk him didn't you? Come on now, you fuvked him. It's okay, just tell us...........haha You little queer you.............
 
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