steppenwolf
Don Juan
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Here I go! Wish me well. I know what my sticking points are. They will become strengths. Strengths! Although I've been out of action for a while, I mean to get back in the swing of things in a MAJOR way.
This is going to be an occasional journal of loose odds and ends. I want this journal to be fun. Fun! Fun!! Ha!! I'll post entries every once in a while.
Last weekend.
Went out "sarging." Whatever that means. I have a wingman now, maybe two, plus a pivot, or maybe two. I was slow to warm up but things got swingin' real fast.
I was watching something on TV at the first bar, and some chick taps me on the shoulder. It's a lady probably mid 30's. She asks me, with a somber expression, to take a photo of her and her friend. Just for fun, I tell her I'm charging $5. She frowns, or pouts and just stares at me. Then she walks away. I keep watching TV.
Set #1: Cougar Opens Me
A couple minutes later, I decide to "make it up to them." I tell the girl who opened me that I was watching something I was really into. She looks sad, but highly receptive, as she is nodding her head up and down energetically, but with sad eyes. I smile to warm them up.
This lady, along with her other somewhat cute but very slightly plump friend, are warming up to me fast. The first lady is kinoing me like crazy. Holding my hand with both hands, and running her hand up and down my chest. Oooh! Her friend is giving me a big, toothy smile.
I know these cougars are down for some action, but I don't want to invest too much time. I see some sports highlights on tv and yell "ALL RIGHT!"
Set #2: Petite Blonde
Now, a short, petite blonde looks over her shoulder to stare at me wide-eyed. I know I have to open her. I go over and say hi. Again, she passes the kino test. That is, I hold her hand, and she squeezes my hand, instead of letting go. I steal her chair, and tease her about it. She says it's ok. I kino escalate with a hug, feel up her arms, as she stands between my legs while I'm seated.
I qualify her. She tells me some cool things about herself, and I reward her by saying that things do make her unique. She says that she would like to talk with me somewhere "private," meaning an f close.
I get her number, and tell her we will set something up for later. She introduces me to her friends. Now, she has another petite blonde friend who is even cuter than she is. However, in the past, I've had issues of dropping targets and losing both girls. So I keep my focus.
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Third Set:
Don't remember what happened next, but I'm walking around and open another set. This is a two set of tall girls, one brunette, one black girl. Both are pretty hot. Especially the brunette. I notice that the brunette gets upset and begins to pout whenever I talk to her black girlfriend and not her. They are about to go to a house party so I have to work fast. I get the number of the brunette and give both girls a hug.
...I return to the two cougars. I try to bounce them to another venue. The second heavier girl says that the two of them are just talking and not interested in meeting guys. Right. I don't want to invest too much time, so I basically leave. She tries to keep me and my wing in set, but I don't want to invest. I leave.
Fourth Set:
I bounce to another club with my wing. There are plenty of two sets all over the place. I see two cute, young girls. I open direct:
"you girls are absolutely beautiful. I'm going to talk to you now."
The two girls are especially receptive, especially the caucasian girl. Her asian girlfriend has a funny, sh#t faced grin while I talk to the two of them, but is otherwise silent.
Now, I drop my drink, get embarrassed by it and it throws me off a bit. The caucasian girl I'm talking to says "oh, that's all right" and claims funnily that she barely noticed it. She wants me to keep talking. Anyway, I talk to both girls for a minute, but basically excuse myself since I feel self conscious about my little drink spill. Oh well.
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Anyway, good times. I could've spent more time with the first two cougars and escalated, but I wasn't really interested in creating "rapport" with these two girls. It's not solid game, more like flash game, but it was fun and good practice. You should always try to run solid game, no matter what.
The petite blonde always returns calls and texts immediately. As in, a few seconds after she receives them. She wants to "connect" with me, lol. So I know it's on. Whenever I want. There are a couple things in her background which make me hesitate a bit (as in substances) but who doesn't have some issue in the past?
The tall brunette is not replying after a couple texts. I'll continue to text and probably call at some point. No big deal either way.
More good times to come.
This is going to be an occasional journal of loose odds and ends. I want this journal to be fun. Fun! Fun!! Ha!! I'll post entries every once in a while.
Last weekend.
Went out "sarging." Whatever that means. I have a wingman now, maybe two, plus a pivot, or maybe two. I was slow to warm up but things got swingin' real fast.
I was watching something on TV at the first bar, and some chick taps me on the shoulder. It's a lady probably mid 30's. She asks me, with a somber expression, to take a photo of her and her friend. Just for fun, I tell her I'm charging $5. She frowns, or pouts and just stares at me. Then she walks away. I keep watching TV.
Set #1: Cougar Opens Me
A couple minutes later, I decide to "make it up to them." I tell the girl who opened me that I was watching something I was really into. She looks sad, but highly receptive, as she is nodding her head up and down energetically, but with sad eyes. I smile to warm them up.
This lady, along with her other somewhat cute but very slightly plump friend, are warming up to me fast. The first lady is kinoing me like crazy. Holding my hand with both hands, and running her hand up and down my chest. Oooh! Her friend is giving me a big, toothy smile.
I know these cougars are down for some action, but I don't want to invest too much time. I see some sports highlights on tv and yell "ALL RIGHT!"
Set #2: Petite Blonde
Now, a short, petite blonde looks over her shoulder to stare at me wide-eyed. I know I have to open her. I go over and say hi. Again, she passes the kino test. That is, I hold her hand, and she squeezes my hand, instead of letting go. I steal her chair, and tease her about it. She says it's ok. I kino escalate with a hug, feel up her arms, as she stands between my legs while I'm seated.
I qualify her. She tells me some cool things about herself, and I reward her by saying that things do make her unique. She says that she would like to talk with me somewhere "private," meaning an f close.
I get her number, and tell her we will set something up for later. She introduces me to her friends. Now, she has another petite blonde friend who is even cuter than she is. However, in the past, I've had issues of dropping targets and losing both girls. So I keep my focus.
---
Third Set:
Don't remember what happened next, but I'm walking around and open another set. This is a two set of tall girls, one brunette, one black girl. Both are pretty hot. Especially the brunette. I notice that the brunette gets upset and begins to pout whenever I talk to her black girlfriend and not her. They are about to go to a house party so I have to work fast. I get the number of the brunette and give both girls a hug.
...I return to the two cougars. I try to bounce them to another venue. The second heavier girl says that the two of them are just talking and not interested in meeting guys. Right. I don't want to invest too much time, so I basically leave. She tries to keep me and my wing in set, but I don't want to invest. I leave.
Fourth Set:
I bounce to another club with my wing. There are plenty of two sets all over the place. I see two cute, young girls. I open direct:
"you girls are absolutely beautiful. I'm going to talk to you now."
The two girls are especially receptive, especially the caucasian girl. Her asian girlfriend has a funny, sh#t faced grin while I talk to the two of them, but is otherwise silent.
Now, I drop my drink, get embarrassed by it and it throws me off a bit. The caucasian girl I'm talking to says "oh, that's all right" and claims funnily that she barely noticed it. She wants me to keep talking. Anyway, I talk to both girls for a minute, but basically excuse myself since I feel self conscious about my little drink spill. Oh well.
---
Anyway, good times. I could've spent more time with the first two cougars and escalated, but I wasn't really interested in creating "rapport" with these two girls. It's not solid game, more like flash game, but it was fun and good practice. You should always try to run solid game, no matter what.
The petite blonde always returns calls and texts immediately. As in, a few seconds after she receives them. She wants to "connect" with me, lol. So I know it's on. Whenever I want. There are a couple things in her background which make me hesitate a bit (as in substances) but who doesn't have some issue in the past?
The tall brunette is not replying after a couple texts. I'll continue to text and probably call at some point. No big deal either way.
More good times to come.
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