Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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step your game up...

scribblec

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well the girl ill be going out with after exams just told me to step my game up... meaning?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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meaning your not telling us fvck all about anything else except the words she just said...

Care to give us background information?

When somebody tells me to step my game up, it's because I failed a simple sh!t test, or I got caught in a lie, I didn't follow up on leads, I didn't take a hint, I didn't approach who I should have.

There are TONS of reasons man, it's just saying your game is lacking.

So if it bothers you, there must be something more to the situation.
 

scribblec

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basically need to get a kiss from her this sunday becuse after that i wont be seeing her for a month... i wanted it yesterday but failed misrably
 

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erm, that makes no sense whatsoever buddy.

"Step your game up"

in other words

Explain that to me better, put a little more thought into your questions.
 

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means exactly what she told you.. step your game up. If you want her, show it. And show it like a man. Don't hesitate, don't be a wimp with it. Come at her correct. Confident. Smooth. And Smart.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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