You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
People can think or believe anything they want. But because you have different morals means ****. By your reasoning, I can shoot car drivers who cut me off on a road with a gun, and nobody has a right to question this.ArcBound said:
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
People can think or believe anything they want. But because you have different morals means ****. By your reasoning, I can shoot car drivers who cut me off on a road with a gun, and nobody has a right to question this.ArcBound said:
I have experienced both with the same girl. Lab results prove the hypothesis accurate.Young Stallion said:
Lol exactly. Second people put all the blame on the man as if he is the only one doing the stealing. They conveniently leave out blame for the woman, who OUT OF HER OWN WILL went and committed adulterous acts with the man. She has a mind too and she chose to go with this "stealer"PrettyBoyAJ said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
i think its european values, i'm european too.European-DJ said:
you're too dim to understand an analogy?PrettyBoyAJ said:
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Nah, it's called commitment and the point of relationships in our society.ezio said:
Even though I have not had this issue while having a gf, It defiantly annoyed me when other guys - perfectly aware of the fact that she is taken - hit on her (never showed that it annoyed me though).PrettyBoyAJ said:
You are annoyed of guys trying to get your girlfriend because of territory instinct not because of moral, if your gf was an obstacle to stay with her better looking friend you wouldnt mind those guys that much.European-DJ said:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Alex DeLarge said:
can someone steal my gf? the answer is yes but more importantly the question u should ask is do i care that someone can steal my gf..the answer to that is an emphatic no!! if the girl am with wants to swing branches, well thats her lose.ilikecharlene said:
Don't let a few posters put you off this forum. There are several fantastic gems hidden on the forum under all the sh*te that's posted. Find those gems, embrace them and then work on being the type of man you want to be.MM92 said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.