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She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

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familyguyfan

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I've got a question about STDs. I know that you can give and receive STDs when getting head. I know that there's a fairly high transmission rate from guys with STDs to girls giving the head. However, I've heard that the transmission rate is much lower from the girl to the guy during oral if she has one in her mouth. Basically, how easy is it to get an STD from a girl that may have one in her mouth?

And please only respond if you actually know what you're talking about, and aren't just speculating.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

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Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Most STDs are in cvm and blood. If you don't have any cuts on your d1ck, and she doesn't have any cuts in her mouth, neither will catch a STD. But even tiny, impossible to see cuts can do it.

I think herpes and HPV are the exceptions. Both of those usually only get spread with skin contact to a sore/wart.

You really should talk to a doctor about this.
 

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stds dont discriminate against gender nor favor one gender over the other.

herpes.com
afraidtoask.com
 

familyguyfan

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Originally posted by penkitten
stds dont discriminate against gender nor favor one gender over the other.

herpes.com
afraidtoask.com
Thanks for the websites, but actually there are a lot of STDs that little to no effect at all on men, but can affect women. I think of the ~30 STDs out there, only around a small number (I forget, but I think it's around 8 or so) affect guys.

However, the most common STDs affect both so it's not much of an issue.

And I may have worded my question weird, but I don't mean it as a gender-based question. Essentially I was wondering whether one was more susceptible to STDs while giving a *******, than one is while receiving one, regardless of the gender of the blower.

I think I already found my answer on a website though. Some STDs are difficult to get when receiving a *******, but others (namely herpes) still can have a relatively high transmission rate when sores are present.
 

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You are more likely to get an STD if you are the one GIVING oral sex to someone who has an STD. If you are the one receiving (bare in mind they don't have herpes on their mouth) oral sex, you really don't have anything to worry about unless they have a profuse bleeding cut in their mouth in which they have an STD.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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