"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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STDs

familyguyfan

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I've got a question about STDs. I know that you can give and receive STDs when getting head. I know that there's a fairly high transmission rate from guys with STDs to girls giving the head. However, I've heard that the transmission rate is much lower from the girl to the guy during oral if she has one in her mouth. Basically, how easy is it to get an STD from a girl that may have one in her mouth?

And please only respond if you actually know what you're talking about, and aren't just speculating.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Shiftkey

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Most STDs are in cvm and blood. If you don't have any cuts on your d1ck, and she doesn't have any cuts in her mouth, neither will catch a STD. But even tiny, impossible to see cuts can do it.

I think herpes and HPV are the exceptions. Both of those usually only get spread with skin contact to a sore/wart.

You really should talk to a doctor about this.
 

penkitten

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stds dont discriminate against gender nor favor one gender over the other.

herpes.com
afraidtoask.com
 

familyguyfan

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Originally posted by penkitten
stds dont discriminate against gender nor favor one gender over the other.

herpes.com
afraidtoask.com
Thanks for the websites, but actually there are a lot of STDs that little to no effect at all on men, but can affect women. I think of the ~30 STDs out there, only around a small number (I forget, but I think it's around 8 or so) affect guys.

However, the most common STDs affect both so it's not much of an issue.

And I may have worded my question weird, but I don't mean it as a gender-based question. Essentially I was wondering whether one was more susceptible to STDs while giving a *******, than one is while receiving one, regardless of the gender of the blower.

I think I already found my answer on a website though. Some STDs are difficult to get when receiving a *******, but others (namely herpes) still can have a relatively high transmission rate when sores are present.
 

SmoothIsSex

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You are more likely to get an STD if you are the one GIVING oral sex to someone who has an STD. If you are the one receiving (bare in mind they don't have herpes on their mouth) oral sex, you really don't have anything to worry about unless they have a profuse bleeding cut in their mouth in which they have an STD.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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