"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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STDs

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can u tell me the exact damages common STDs could bring to you? i mean... i'd be afraid as hell if i risked to have AIDS, but why everyone is so scared of like herpes?! i don't think that's so terrible... i mean, i wouldn't like to have it, as well as gonorrhea and syphilis, but at least, unlike aids, u don't carry them all your life... there are cures for them, aren't there? and, expecially, they are not fatal, unlike aids...

sh1t, things i read on this website are freakin' me out... now, i'm afraid of even touch my girlfriend... everytime we are naked, i can't think about anything, but the risks of pregnancy and aids:-(
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Jay-X
can u tell me the exact damages common STDs could bring to you? i mean... i'd be afraid as hell if i risked to have AIDS, but why everyone is so scared of like herpes?! i don't think that's so terrible... i mean, i wouldn't like to have it, as well as gonorrhea and syphilis, but at least, unlike aids, u don't carry them all your life... there are cures for them, aren't there? and, expecially, they are not fatal, unlike aids...

sh1t, things i read on this website are freakin' me out... now, i'm afraid of even touch my girlfriend... everytime we are naked, i can't think about anything, but the risks of pregnancy and aids:-(
Dude, you need to do some research on STDs. For example, herpes IS something you carry all your life, as well as genital warts. They are not life threatening but they can be uncomfortable. Other diseases are treatable but if you don't get the medical help you need, they can still be fatal or really f*ck you up. I suggest you go to a site like www.webmd.com and look up the sexually transmitted disease on that site.
 

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thank you so much, guy, i'm goin' there right now!
may i ask you a question i've always wondered since i've read your name for the first time: why "giovanni" casanova?!?!
 

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Originally posted by Jay-X
thank you so much, guy, i'm goin' there right now!
may i ask you a question i've always wondered since i've read your name for the first time: why "giovanni" casanova?!?!
Sometimes Giacomo Casanova was referred to as "Giovanni" Casanova, and I am part Italian.
 

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i get it, i did a research on google and i saw that there were many giovannis, but weren't giacomo simpler?;-)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Jay-X
i get it, i did a research on google and i saw that there were many giovannis, but weren't giacomo simpler?;-)
Not for me.
 

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The guy is more concerned about Giovanni vs. Giacommo than he is about Herpes!!! ;)
 

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Originally posted by Cesare Cardinali
The guy is more concerned about Giovanni vs. Giacommo than he is about Herpes!!! ;)
Well, you know, herpes is only an incurable sexual disease that cause pain, discomfort, and social/romantic stigma.

Now, my name on the other hand... that's important sh*t.
 

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Do a search on here. There was a nice post about STD's. I think it might be stickied still.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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