"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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STDs

Jay-X

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can u tell me the exact damages common STDs could bring to you? i mean... i'd be afraid as hell if i risked to have AIDS, but why everyone is so scared of like herpes?! i don't think that's so terrible... i mean, i wouldn't like to have it, as well as gonorrhea and syphilis, but at least, unlike aids, u don't carry them all your life... there are cures for them, aren't there? and, expecially, they are not fatal, unlike aids...

sh1t, things i read on this website are freakin' me out... now, i'm afraid of even touch my girlfriend... everytime we are naked, i can't think about anything, but the risks of pregnancy and aids:-(
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Jay-X
can u tell me the exact damages common STDs could bring to you? i mean... i'd be afraid as hell if i risked to have AIDS, but why everyone is so scared of like herpes?! i don't think that's so terrible... i mean, i wouldn't like to have it, as well as gonorrhea and syphilis, but at least, unlike aids, u don't carry them all your life... there are cures for them, aren't there? and, expecially, they are not fatal, unlike aids...

sh1t, things i read on this website are freakin' me out... now, i'm afraid of even touch my girlfriend... everytime we are naked, i can't think about anything, but the risks of pregnancy and aids:-(
Dude, you need to do some research on STDs. For example, herpes IS something you carry all your life, as well as genital warts. They are not life threatening but they can be uncomfortable. Other diseases are treatable but if you don't get the medical help you need, they can still be fatal or really f*ck you up. I suggest you go to a site like www.webmd.com and look up the sexually transmitted disease on that site.
 

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thank you so much, guy, i'm goin' there right now!
may i ask you a question i've always wondered since i've read your name for the first time: why "giovanni" casanova?!?!
 

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Originally posted by Jay-X
thank you so much, guy, i'm goin' there right now!
may i ask you a question i've always wondered since i've read your name for the first time: why "giovanni" casanova?!?!
Sometimes Giacomo Casanova was referred to as "Giovanni" Casanova, and I am part Italian.
 

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i get it, i did a research on google and i saw that there were many giovannis, but weren't giacomo simpler?;-)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by Jay-X
i get it, i did a research on google and i saw that there were many giovannis, but weren't giacomo simpler?;-)
Not for me.
 

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The guy is more concerned about Giovanni vs. Giacommo than he is about Herpes!!! ;)
 

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Originally posted by Cesare Cardinali
The guy is more concerned about Giovanni vs. Giacommo than he is about Herpes!!! ;)
Well, you know, herpes is only an incurable sexual disease that cause pain, discomfort, and social/romantic stigma.

Now, my name on the other hand... that's important sh*t.
 

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Do a search on here. There was a nice post about STD's. I think it might be stickied still.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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