"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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STD's - How worried are you?

Evil-Rom

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Okay so recently I've started having sex. I've started to read up on stuff about STD's and frankly it scares the sh*t out of me.

Now, lets say 2 people are virgins with no previous sexual contact with anyone, have unprotected sex (no condom). Is it possible for one of them to catch some sort of STD?

I'm asking this because I plan on fvcking my girl without a rubber soon (she's going on the pill).

What about you? Are you worried some random girl you pickup has an STD? Do you wear a condom when recieving oral?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Kineti[C]harm

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Doesn't worry me at all and no I never recieve oral with a condom on ffs. If it's one of the girls I fvck with a condom I refuse her giving me oral.

Why is a girl that is a virgin on the pill?!
 

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If your girl or you have shared needles in the past you are at risk for the blood borne ones.... HIV, Hepatitis..

If you have had cold sores on your mouth (Herpes type 1) but sometimes these are cause by genital herpes (herpes type 2). Obviously you could only transmit these to your partners genital region through contact with you mouth (or saliva) while you had a cold sore.

Public lice (crabs) could also be present in someone who has never had sex through shareing towels/bed sheets... you get the idea.

As for the warts the only way I could think of her being infected is highly unlikely if she has never had any sexual contact.

For the intracellular bacterial ones ... gonorrheae, Chlamydia ...very unlikely.

There is an sticky threat in the health and fitness section look at that

You can never be 100% certain (even with all the tests)

As for random chicks I always wear a dom...... (i never want or give oral for ONS) a mate of mine once went to a sex clinic the story was scary enough to make me fairly paranoid if studying virology wasn't enough already.
 

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Evil-Rom, it's okay as long as you both are totally monogamous with each other (hopefully both of you are openly honest with each other at this point too.) Seems alright to me.

With random people you don't know or think they might have a very active sexual history... always use a condom. If they got diseases on their mouth or genital area I can see.. I'm sure even a drunk person would not hit it regardless of condom use.
 

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Kineti[C]harm, she recently went on the pill, and she's not a virgin anymore ;)

willo, thanks for the rundown on that, it helped. Don't think she or I have had/done any of that.

DJ_Dork, thanks man, I'll watch out for that in the future.

Thanks for the help guys, appreciate it! :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I agree. There definately needs to be more information about this. I posted a message (in suggestions) hoping the moderators will create a forum specifically for this issue. I came across this, by Tyler Durden (from mast) and it's just sad.

"
I think that my LMR game has gone down somewhat, because I don't get turned
on very easily anymore. I can see how guys turn kink after a while. There is
a strong correlation between attraction and validation. I think that I'm not
very validated anymore by foreplay, so unless the girl is going to put in her
share of the work, its somewhat boring. I'm sure that would change very
quickly with a dry-spell, but I don't happen to be in one right now. It's
funny how when you're a player and don't want to hook up with the same girl
twice, you often deal with sex where the girl doesn't do a lot to help things,
because she doesn't want it to be "her fault" ala ASD or whatever. I also
haven't had sex without a condom in a long time. In a relationship, that
wouldn't necessarily be the case. And yet, things get boring in that situation
also

"
Well.... contact the management here if you want to see a change.

Dave
 
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