"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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STD from Long Term Girlfriend

CORVETTE06

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i don't know why i still feel like i want to be with this girl. i miss her even though its obvious she cheated on me
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sandow

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First off, stop acting like a pu$$y. She's a hore who cheated on you, she doesn't deserve you. Ingrain that in your head.

It takes time to get over a girl, but this one shouldn't be hard given what shes done to you! In time you'll move on.
 

CORVETTE06

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i know, every day it gets better. i already went out to the bars talking to girls just for fun. and i play a lot of call of duty. :)
 

Alle_Gory

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CORVETTE06 said:
i don't know why i still feel like i want to be with this girl. i miss her even though its obvious she cheated on me
It's a natural feeling. Smokers and alcoholics feel the same thing when kicking the habit.

At least smoking and alcohol don't give you STDs.
 

Drewskie

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If it makes you feel any better, she most likely cheated a bunch of times, and just happened to catch something from one of the many encounters. And btw, I'm sure not one of them was smart enough to wrap it up.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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jdollarthegreat

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What STD is it man? Real talk im curious now. I'll tell you STD's ive gotten. Only one i've ever gotten was chylmidia a couple of times but they give u a pill and thats gone in no time. Stuff that is good is also bad so it comes with the territory, i hope its not aids or nothing that would be crazy. Raw sex is great sex man but in this day and age girls be having hella diseases man. That **** is gross man, you penetrate something tryna get pure pleasure from that motha****a and u end up diseased smh
 

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Heard an interesting statistic on the radio this morning on STDs. 82% of women will not tell the guy they're about to hook up with that they've got an STD. Think about that.
 
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