Julius_Seizeher
Master Don Juan
Then send them to her in an envelope, with a handwritten letter saying "I found these, and they reminded me of you."
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
STD from Long Term Girlfriend
- Thread starter CORVETTE06
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yea symptoms appear in 3-5 days of being exposed to the virus. That includes all std's even HIV which are flu like symptoms. That being said, she must of have recently been cheating on you (like your doctor said).
Dude we're never going to see or know who you are so you might as well tell us what it is. One of us can have some useful info for you.
If it's bacterial like chlaymedia, then you just take one pill and its cured the next day. No biggie. You said it's not herpes so it may be HPV. Well, a lot of guys have HPV there are just do no physical symptoms. If you have the kind where it causes warts, then you get them removed. In most cases they never come back ( and in my opinion that means cured). Also when they are dormant, it is very hard to infect someone else. Doctors say it is still possible (though unlikely) but I believe they only say that to protect their ass
Dude we're never going to see or know who you are so you might as well tell us what it is. One of us can have some useful info for you.
If it's bacterial like chlaymedia, then you just take one pill and its cured the next day. No biggie. You said it's not herpes so it may be HPV. Well, a lot of guys have HPV there are just do no physical symptoms. If you have the kind where it causes warts, then you get them removed. In most cases they never come back ( and in my opinion that means cured). Also when they are dormant, it is very hard to infect someone else. Doctors say it is still possible (though unlikely) but I believe they only say that to protect their ass
Then why did you mention it in the first place?CORVETTE06 said:i'd rather not talk about it, buts its not herpes
"Hey guys, my car broke down what do I do, should I get a new one?"
"What car is it?"
"I'd rather not talk about it."
This is common sense.
She went to Flordia with he girls without you. When girls go on trips together, they do some of the most wild things.
These pictures with the other guys? If see really did not want the pictures, why didnt she erase them?
Guilt: Her telling about her sister is a cover up...
She went to Flordia with he girls without you. When girls go on trips together, they do some of the most wild things.
These pictures with the other guys? If see really did not want the pictures, why didnt she erase them?
Guilt: Her telling about her sister is a cover up...
2crudedudes
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I'm new here and by no means any where near as experienced as some of the other guys here. However, here's my take:CORVETTE06 said:Do you think she cheated on me? She cried and said she swares she didn't cheat on me. She actually turned it around and blamed it on me, and said that I cheated.
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She also went away to florida without me for spring break. She called me while she was there crying, saying that she got in a fight with her sister. She said her sister was mad at her and that she might call me and tell me that she cheated on me - and that I shouldn't believe it.
She turned on you and blamed you for "cheating" when you know its not true. Think of it this way, one person in this relationship is lying. Which one is it?
To me the call from Florida is a big red flag. She wasn't crying because she had gotten in a fight with her sister. She was crying because she got caught and she was gonna be turned in. She called you as an attempt to manipulate you into believing her side of the story, facts be damned. And it sounds like she did just that.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
CORVETTE06
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Thank you everyone for your replies. It means a lot to me because I do not want my friends knowing I have an STD, so I didn't tell them. I broke up with my girlfriend - and i'm feeling better every day. I joined a gym and am going to concentrate on my health for a while. Time will take my STD away and make me stronger...
CORVETTE06
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you could, but then you gotta worry about them cheating on you. that's how i got mine. make sure that you can trust them, that's the key
The Piano Master
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You could make them sign a contract so if they cheat on you it's lawsuit time.CORVETTE06 said:you could, but then you gotta worry about them cheating on you. that's how i got mine. make sure that you can trust them, that's the key
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Desert Fox
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congrats she cheated on you and left you with a little present.
SURPRISE! ITS A FUKKIN STD. hahaha you idiot.
don't lay h0rs. you can prevent this by dating high quality women and not being so desperate to resort to H0RS like ur gf. kthxbai
SURPRISE! ITS A FUKKIN STD. hahaha you idiot.
don't lay h0rs. you can prevent this by dating high quality women and not being so desperate to resort to H0RS like ur gf. kthxbai
guywhoneedshelp
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Dump
that
b!tch
that
b!tch
CORVETTE06
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I did dump her. the only thing is she was really hot (HB10) and looked like a porn star.
Probably got fvcked like one too behind your back. Why do you want her so bad, you want to start an STD collection?CORVETTE06 said:I did dump her. the only thing is she was really hot (HB10) and looked like a porn star.
Desert Fox said:congrats she cheated on you and left you with a little present.
SURPRISE! ITS A FUKKIN STD. hahaha you idiot.
don't lay h0rs. you can prevent this by dating high quality women and not being so desperate to resort to H0RS like ur gf. kthxbai
Read my lips: There is no such fvcking thing as a high quality woman!!! Only high quality men that can keep them under control, who are rare as hell, and even then, women will be women.
He's not an idiot, he's a normal dude who got played.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
Hot damn ! I dated her mother !CORVETTE06 said:I did dump her. the only thing is she was really hot (HB10) and looked like a porn star.
There's low quality women, so there must be high quality too. Somewhere.horaholic said:Read my lips: There is no such fvcking thing as a high quality woman!!!
Andy_Dufresne
Senior Don Juan
If its HPV or chlamydia, the probability is extremely high to certain that she cheated on you. So, vette, you diod the right thing - you have to go on that basis and next her.
The good news is that these are treatable and will go away over time.
Herpes is a different story. I have it from my current girlfriend of three years, and I have been dealing with the emotional fallout since I found out two years ago. She claims she did not know she had it; and given the nature of how the disease behaves in your body I tend to believe her....but I am quietly angry about the fact she did not pay attention to her body. Breakout frequency depends on the health of the individual's immune system, and can be six times a year, once a year, or even once every five or ten years if you supplement your immune system. Breakouts can also come in many forms (I went to see my doctor about a rash...he insisted it "wasn't herpes", but it was) - rash, "cold sore", or series of bumps.
Its rough out there, "wrap it tight" - a tip, too, if your not sure..... is to place one hand over the pubic area to protect skin to skin contact....if you pay attention to techniques in porn videos, a lot of porn stars do this.
The good news is that these are treatable and will go away over time.
Herpes is a different story. I have it from my current girlfriend of three years, and I have been dealing with the emotional fallout since I found out two years ago. She claims she did not know she had it; and given the nature of how the disease behaves in your body I tend to believe her....but I am quietly angry about the fact she did not pay attention to her body. Breakout frequency depends on the health of the individual's immune system, and can be six times a year, once a year, or even once every five or ten years if you supplement your immune system. Breakouts can also come in many forms (I went to see my doctor about a rash...he insisted it "wasn't herpes", but it was) - rash, "cold sore", or series of bumps.
Its rough out there, "wrap it tight" - a tip, too, if your not sure..... is to place one hand over the pubic area to protect skin to skin contact....if you pay attention to techniques in porn videos, a lot of porn stars do this.
Strap up! Why go to clinic? Do NO oral on her and dont let her do it on you unless you wanna go the next level.CORVETTE06 said:you could, but then you gotta worry about them cheating on you. that's how i got mine. make sure that you can trust them, that's the key
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.