Julius_Seizeher
Master Don Juan
Then send them to her in an envelope, with a handwritten letter saying "I found these, and they reminded me of you."
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
STD from Long Term Girlfriend
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yea symptoms appear in 3-5 days of being exposed to the virus. That includes all std's even HIV which are flu like symptoms. That being said, she must of have recently been cheating on you (like your doctor said).
Dude we're never going to see or know who you are so you might as well tell us what it is. One of us can have some useful info for you.
If it's bacterial like chlaymedia, then you just take one pill and its cured the next day. No biggie. You said it's not herpes so it may be HPV. Well, a lot of guys have HPV there are just do no physical symptoms. If you have the kind where it causes warts, then you get them removed. In most cases they never come back ( and in my opinion that means cured). Also when they are dormant, it is very hard to infect someone else. Doctors say it is still possible (though unlikely) but I believe they only say that to protect their ass
Dude we're never going to see or know who you are so you might as well tell us what it is. One of us can have some useful info for you.
If it's bacterial like chlaymedia, then you just take one pill and its cured the next day. No biggie. You said it's not herpes so it may be HPV. Well, a lot of guys have HPV there are just do no physical symptoms. If you have the kind where it causes warts, then you get them removed. In most cases they never come back ( and in my opinion that means cured). Also when they are dormant, it is very hard to infect someone else. Doctors say it is still possible (though unlikely) but I believe they only say that to protect their ass
Then why did you mention it in the first place?CORVETTE06 said:i'd rather not talk about it, buts its not herpes
"Hey guys, my car broke down what do I do, should I get a new one?"
"What car is it?"
"I'd rather not talk about it."
This is common sense.
She went to Flordia with he girls without you. When girls go on trips together, they do some of the most wild things.
These pictures with the other guys? If see really did not want the pictures, why didnt she erase them?
Guilt: Her telling about her sister is a cover up...
She went to Flordia with he girls without you. When girls go on trips together, they do some of the most wild things.
These pictures with the other guys? If see really did not want the pictures, why didnt she erase them?
Guilt: Her telling about her sister is a cover up...
2crudedudes
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I'm new here and by no means any where near as experienced as some of the other guys here. However, here's my take:CORVETTE06 said:Do you think she cheated on me? She cried and said she swares she didn't cheat on me. She actually turned it around and blamed it on me, and said that I cheated.
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She also went away to florida without me for spring break. She called me while she was there crying, saying that she got in a fight with her sister. She said her sister was mad at her and that she might call me and tell me that she cheated on me - and that I shouldn't believe it.
She turned on you and blamed you for "cheating" when you know its not true. Think of it this way, one person in this relationship is lying. Which one is it?
To me the call from Florida is a big red flag. She wasn't crying because she had gotten in a fight with her sister. She was crying because she got caught and she was gonna be turned in. She called you as an attempt to manipulate you into believing her side of the story, facts be damned. And it sounds like she did just that.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
CORVETTE06
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Thank you everyone for your replies. It means a lot to me because I do not want my friends knowing I have an STD, so I didn't tell them. I broke up with my girlfriend - and i'm feeling better every day. I joined a gym and am going to concentrate on my health for a while. Time will take my STD away and make me stronger...
CORVETTE06
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you could, but then you gotta worry about them cheating on you. that's how i got mine. make sure that you can trust them, that's the key
The Piano Master
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You could make them sign a contract so if they cheat on you it's lawsuit time.CORVETTE06 said:you could, but then you gotta worry about them cheating on you. that's how i got mine. make sure that you can trust them, that's the key
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Desert Fox
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congrats she cheated on you and left you with a little present.
SURPRISE! ITS A FUKKIN STD. hahaha you idiot.
don't lay h0rs. you can prevent this by dating high quality women and not being so desperate to resort to H0RS like ur gf. kthxbai
SURPRISE! ITS A FUKKIN STD. hahaha you idiot.
don't lay h0rs. you can prevent this by dating high quality women and not being so desperate to resort to H0RS like ur gf. kthxbai
guywhoneedshelp
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Dump
that
b!tch
that
b!tch
CORVETTE06
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I did dump her. the only thing is she was really hot (HB10) and looked like a porn star.
Probably got fvcked like one too behind your back. Why do you want her so bad, you want to start an STD collection?CORVETTE06 said:I did dump her. the only thing is she was really hot (HB10) and looked like a porn star.
Desert Fox said:congrats she cheated on you and left you with a little present.
SURPRISE! ITS A FUKKIN STD. hahaha you idiot.
don't lay h0rs. you can prevent this by dating high quality women and not being so desperate to resort to H0RS like ur gf. kthxbai
Read my lips: There is no such fvcking thing as a high quality woman!!! Only high quality men that can keep them under control, who are rare as hell, and even then, women will be women.
He's not an idiot, he's a normal dude who got played.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
Hot damn ! I dated her mother !CORVETTE06 said:I did dump her. the only thing is she was really hot (HB10) and looked like a porn star.
There's low quality women, so there must be high quality too. Somewhere.horaholic said:Read my lips: There is no such fvcking thing as a high quality woman!!!
Andy_Dufresne
Senior Don Juan
If its HPV or chlamydia, the probability is extremely high to certain that she cheated on you. So, vette, you diod the right thing - you have to go on that basis and next her.
The good news is that these are treatable and will go away over time.
Herpes is a different story. I have it from my current girlfriend of three years, and I have been dealing with the emotional fallout since I found out two years ago. She claims she did not know she had it; and given the nature of how the disease behaves in your body I tend to believe her....but I am quietly angry about the fact she did not pay attention to her body. Breakout frequency depends on the health of the individual's immune system, and can be six times a year, once a year, or even once every five or ten years if you supplement your immune system. Breakouts can also come in many forms (I went to see my doctor about a rash...he insisted it "wasn't herpes", but it was) - rash, "cold sore", or series of bumps.
Its rough out there, "wrap it tight" - a tip, too, if your not sure..... is to place one hand over the pubic area to protect skin to skin contact....if you pay attention to techniques in porn videos, a lot of porn stars do this.
The good news is that these are treatable and will go away over time.
Herpes is a different story. I have it from my current girlfriend of three years, and I have been dealing with the emotional fallout since I found out two years ago. She claims she did not know she had it; and given the nature of how the disease behaves in your body I tend to believe her....but I am quietly angry about the fact she did not pay attention to her body. Breakout frequency depends on the health of the individual's immune system, and can be six times a year, once a year, or even once every five or ten years if you supplement your immune system. Breakouts can also come in many forms (I went to see my doctor about a rash...he insisted it "wasn't herpes", but it was) - rash, "cold sore", or series of bumps.
Its rough out there, "wrap it tight" - a tip, too, if your not sure..... is to place one hand over the pubic area to protect skin to skin contact....if you pay attention to techniques in porn videos, a lot of porn stars do this.
Strap up! Why go to clinic? Do NO oral on her and dont let her do it on you unless you wanna go the next level.CORVETTE06 said:you could, but then you gotta worry about them cheating on you. that's how i got mine. make sure that you can trust them, that's the key
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.