"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When you bang a girl for the first time, and it happens at her place, and it's late, do you stay over? If so, do you say anything about it or just fall asleep?

I don't mind staying over, but there's something about doing so with a new plate that feels like I'm handing over power a bit.

Conversely, if we just banged for the first time, it's 2am, and I just say "well, see ya later" it could put out the wrong vibe if she's more LTR material and less pump and dump.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Staying over is completely beta, yes you are giving her the power. Leave the moment after sex, real alpha leave right before they jizz.
 
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LoL - I don't know about you, but once I'm done I'm TIRED, and not trying to drive. And since when was staying over a girl's place considered a "beta" thing to do?? Personally, I stay for the morning sex.
 
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If she's hot and attractive...why the hell not stay over night??

I always do, so I can get some more in the morning before I leave.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Harry Wilmington said:
LoL - I don't know about you, but once I'm done I'm TIRED, and not trying to drive. And since when was staying over a girl's place considered a "beta" thing to do?? Personally, I stay for the morning sex.
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Agreed 100%^^

Not only that but I'm usually pretty buzzed & don't need a DUI. Just keeping it real, I don't think I've ever been sober first time banging a chick.

Avoiding cuddling is the biggest pain in the ass, BUT you can LEARN a lot too.

Just blasted through an hour of wake up sex, she wants to cuddle now. She says "Let's just stay in this moment forever" :eek: Yeah she ended up having some BPD traits.
 
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Staying over is completely beta, yes you are giving her the power. Leave the moment after sex, real alpha leave right before they jizz.
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pah-lease. Morning sex never occurred to you as an option?
 
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pah-lease. Morning sex never occurred to you as an option?
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At my current lifestyle, fvck no.
Once I am done with sex, I don't crave it anymore - not until I need my next sex release.

I'm done, I do not need to fvck her again. What purpose that that serve? The second time around will not be as good as the first. I would rather be back at my place (somehow) and eat a plate of nachos before I would consider sex with anyone again.

Morning sex? Are you milking it for all the dimes and pennies? It will never be as good as the first time around. Why the fvck stick around for morning sex?

FYI, my comment should be taken with a HUGE grain of saltcasm.

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Morning sex is a mark of Beta. You are trying to milk it for what it's worth.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Harry Wilmington said:
LoL - I don't know about you, but once I'm done I'm TIRED, and not trying to drive. And since when was staying over a girl's place considered a "beta" thing to do?? Personally, I stay for the morning sex.
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:up:

plus you might get a free breakfast if you are really good
 
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BeDJ said:
Morning sex is a mark of Beta. You are trying to milk it for what it's worth.
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I'm a huge beta who starts his day with off by getting his **** sucked.
 
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BeDJ said:
At my current lifestyle, fvck no.
Once I am done with sex, I don't crave it anymore - not until I need my next sex release.

I'm done, I do not need to fvck her again. What purpose that that serve? The second time around will not be as good as the first. I would rather be back at my place (somehow) and eat a plate of nachos before I would consider sex with anyone again.

Morning sex? Are you milking it for all the dimes and pennies? It will never be as good as the first time around. Why the fvck stick around for morning sex?

FYI, my comment should be taken with a HUGE grain of saltcasm.

To add:

Morning sex is a mark of Beta. You are trying to milk it for what it's worth.
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exactly how i feel after sex haha
 
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