"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Staying Faithful

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I want to do this but everywhere temptation is around me. I have found a girl I really like. I don't worry about her. She works at least 60 hours a week and doesn't run around clubbing or barhopping.

I'm concerned more about myself. It's easy for me to spark attraction and it happens everywhere. I am constantly tempted because even in our not so hoppin' singles scene there are still tons of single women everywhere. It's pretty shocking. Sometimes when my gf is out of town I go out to local bars and there are definitely some hot willing women in droves. I feel like there are tons of options.

How do you stay faithful to a girl you really like?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I want to do this but everywhere temptation is around me. I have found a girl I really like. I don't worry about her. She works at least 60 hours a week and doesn't run around clubbing or barhopping.

I'm concerned more about myself. It's easy for me to spark attraction and it happens everywhere. I am constantly tempted because even in our not so hoppin' singles scene there are still tons of single women everywhere. It's pretty shocking. Sometimes when my gf is out of town I go out to local bars and there are definitely some hot willing women in droves. I feel like there are tons of options.

How do you stay faithful to a girl you really like?
Why did you agree to go exclusive? You thinking about settling down already?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sometimes when my gf is out of town I go out to local bars and there are definitely some hot willing women in droves. I feel like there are tons of options.

How do you stay faithful to a girl you really like?
Make yourself less attractive so hot women don’t fall in love with you and give up their body to you at first sight.
 

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Not all of them though.
Almost every dude I know, from mature 50+ dudes to 25+ younglings with young wives and small kids. They all fck on the side. Some fck when they leave their town for work, some fck during summer when women come to vacation, others got long term lovers on the side. Some wives suspect it and are jealous, others have no clue.

Married guys, not just guys who have a girlfriend.

I just know several dudes who don't fck around, but then again those are the dudes I don't party with, and only deal once in a while.
 

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How do you stay faithful to a girl you really like?
I dont. Competition brings out the best in everyone.

I like having a 3-4 chick rotation for that very reason. And consistent sex.

I like them all. I also know that having only one of them around is a poor choice on my part and leads to a woman who stops chasing me, stops trying to impress me and eventually the true ugly version of herself comes out. Then I fvck more chicks.

Why not just have a rotation, fvck them all now, and if one of them gets to the point that I dont want to be around her I replace her. And still have those other 2-3 in my rotation as I screen for her replacement.

I get what I want, I bring out the best in them (competition) and in the end if one of them falls out of rotation, I dont skip a beat.
 
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