"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Staying Faithful

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I want to do this but everywhere temptation is around me. I have found a girl I really like. I don't worry about her. She works at least 60 hours a week and doesn't run around clubbing or barhopping.

I'm concerned more about myself. It's easy for me to spark attraction and it happens everywhere. I am constantly tempted because even in our not so hoppin' singles scene there are still tons of single women everywhere. It's pretty shocking. Sometimes when my gf is out of town I go out to local bars and there are definitely some hot willing women in droves. I feel like there are tons of options.

How do you stay faithful to a girl you really like?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I want to do this but everywhere temptation is around me. I have found a girl I really like. I don't worry about her. She works at least 60 hours a week and doesn't run around clubbing or barhopping.

I'm concerned more about myself. It's easy for me to spark attraction and it happens everywhere. I am constantly tempted because even in our not so hoppin' singles scene there are still tons of single women everywhere. It's pretty shocking. Sometimes when my gf is out of town I go out to local bars and there are definitely some hot willing women in droves. I feel like there are tons of options.

How do you stay faithful to a girl you really like?
Why did you agree to go exclusive? You thinking about settling down already?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sometimes when my gf is out of town I go out to local bars and there are definitely some hot willing women in droves. I feel like there are tons of options.

How do you stay faithful to a girl you really like?
Make yourself less attractive so hot women don’t fall in love with you and give up their body to you at first sight.
 

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Not all of them though.
Almost every dude I know, from mature 50+ dudes to 25+ younglings with young wives and small kids. They all fck on the side. Some fck when they leave their town for work, some fck during summer when women come to vacation, others got long term lovers on the side. Some wives suspect it and are jealous, others have no clue.

Married guys, not just guys who have a girlfriend.

I just know several dudes who don't fck around, but then again those are the dudes I don't party with, and only deal once in a while.
 

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How do you stay faithful to a girl you really like?
I dont. Competition brings out the best in everyone.

I like having a 3-4 chick rotation for that very reason. And consistent sex.

I like them all. I also know that having only one of them around is a poor choice on my part and leads to a woman who stops chasing me, stops trying to impress me and eventually the true ugly version of herself comes out. Then I fvck more chicks.

Why not just have a rotation, fvck them all now, and if one of them gets to the point that I dont want to be around her I replace her. And still have those other 2-3 in my rotation as I screen for her replacement.

I get what I want, I bring out the best in them (competition) and in the end if one of them falls out of rotation, I dont skip a beat.
 
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