"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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stay with gf or not?

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hey guys

so i'm a bit conflicted. I have a great girlfriend. She takes care of herself, takes care of me, loves cooking and cooks for me a lot, gives me my space when I need it, is there when I want to chill... great sex, everything's cool. been together for almost 2 years. anyway we're having this conversation the other day though, she's joking around and telling me how desired I am and she's like "yeah, like when we started dating <girl I've always had my eye on> was saying how lucky I am because you're so sexy, prettymuch she wants to fvck you, that's the impression I got"

now, this is a common thing (not trying to brag or anything) -- she'll tell me these convos she has with other girls where they say how great I am and they mention that the sex must be good or whatever. But anyway this girl she mentions, I was kinda after her before we started dating, and I always keep tabs on her. so when i heard this all i could think about was how i could totally get with this other girl.

i still have a great relationship and this girl is amazing, but now all I think about is how good playing the field (or swapping in for this other girl) could be right now. it might be a case of "grass is greener," and for me to maneuver out of this relationship and still retain my image as a mysterious, seductive guy could be difficult. i dunno what to do really. I was thinking since it's stress time right now (hard courses and stuff)maybe I should think on this for a month or so before making any decisions. any advice guys?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How long have you been dating? Are you in a committed relationship?
 
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Tr9n said:
How long have you been dating? Are you in a committed relationship?
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2 years, yes it is very committed. And i'm not one of those "lock-into-a-relationship" guys, this girl is (was?) for sure relationship material in every sense of the word.
 
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Would you even be thinking about this had she not had this conversation with you?

It just seems like that one conversation changed everything about you in just a second.

Are you sure you still want to play the field? You might lose everything you have right now just to pursue something that isn't even there.
 
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I think sitting on it for a little bit sounds about right. Do a cost-benefit analysis type thing.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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all you have to do is cheat, the best thing that can happen is that you will have your committed girlfriend, and all the azz on the side that you want. Worst that could happen is, your girlfriend leaves you, but then you still have the azz - you have nothing to lose!!!

p.s. - yes, you do not love her, and that is ok, you are having normal thoughts about wanting to bang other chicks - I don't get guys like you, who pretty much force themselves into a dead-end relationship where the only end result is that you all of a sudden lose the right to FREEDOM OF PVSSY, and what do you gain?

what do you gain by committing to a girlfriend?? nothing that you couldn't have if you weren't committed
 
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Kailex said:
Would you even be thinking about this had she not had this conversation with you?

It just seems like that one conversation changed everything about you in just a second.
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Good point Kailex.

It does seem weird that you'd consider leaving this girl who has so many desirable qualities simply because of some comment she made.


From everything you've said about your girl,she seems like the "holy grail" of girlfriends. I think this may be a "grass is greener" scenario as you described.

Kailex said:
Are you sure you still want to play the field? You might lose everything you have right now just to pursue something that isn't even there.
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Right again Kailex,especially the part about pursung something that isn't there.


Wwwww,it seems like you're about to go and pursue a mirage. Yeah,from a distance what you see may appear to be good,but when you get right up to it,you'll probably kick yourself for throwing away this jewel of a girl you have.


A guy can have sex with any girl he dates,so the sex is a given. But all these other things you mentioned about your girlfriend;her taking care of herself,taking care of you,cooking for you,giving you room when you need it,etc, are a rare find.

And you have it all wrapped up in one person.


This girl you're thinking about leaving your girlfreind for may give you sex,but would that alone be enough to make up for all the other traits your girl has?


Just think it though before you act.
 
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