"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Stay cool!

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I personally think the most important thing with the ladies, and probably anything else really, is to stay cool.

You can practice right here.

If a dude writes a post about "do looks matter"; stay cool.

If the mods delete your posts; stay cool.

If someone trolls your post; stay cool.

If someone flames you; stay cool.

If someone disagrees with your ideas; stay cool.

It will be good practice if you ever have to deal with a woman.

JJ
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So pimp its scary

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LMAO!!

Except, why do I have this feeling that you accidentally made a new thread instead of replying in a different thread?
 

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So pimp its scary said:
LMAO!!

Except, why do I have this feeling that you accidentally made a new thread instead of replying in a different thread?
Just stayin cool.

Good post Jay Jay :)
 
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Actually as simplistic as this sounds, JJ makes a valid point - don't sweat the small stuff - pick your battles!!

Don't let hors get you in a "tizzie" fit (rattled) - be calm and walk away in a dignified manner!!
 
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sounds like ur talkin about me

a real man doesnt NEED to stay cool just cuz he's told to stay cool

a REAL MAN does whatever he wants

and im actually pretty damn pissed at the ignorance of sosuave right now
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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*looks out the window to see if pigs are flying*

Last Man Standing said:
Actually as simplistic as this sounds, JJ makes a valid point - don't sweat the small stuff - pick your battles!!

Its a special day when the venerated LMS agrees with me.

JJ
 

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absolut honesty said:
sounds like ur talkin about me

a real man doesnt NEED to stay cool just cuz he's told to stay cool

a REAL MAN does whatever he wants

and im actually pretty damn pissed at the ignorance of sosuave right now
Amoungst many others.

JJ
 

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Jay Jay said:
I personally think the most important thing with the ladies, and probably anything else really, is to stay cool.

You can practice right here.

If a dude writes a post about "do looks matter"; stay cool.

If the mods delete your posts; stay cool.

If someone trolls your post; stay cool.

If someone flames you; stay cool.

If someone disagrees with your ideas; stay cool.

It will be good practice if you ever have to deal with a woman.

JJ


Yeah I have been staying cool. But at times its kind of hard, especially recently it just seems that sosuave is turning into total crap. (It has been terrible over the last month). I really feel they need to clean this place up. I have been thinking about actually leave this site for good.

There are too many trolls here and idiotic threads. Unfortunately nothing is going to change. So I can either leave or just stay cool with all the garbage I read here.
 
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I just lost my cool in the Anything Else forum - Wyldfire and Deus are advocating the murder of millions because they are fascist fvcks!!!!! I hate devils!!!!
 

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god fucking dammit I refuse to stay cool!! Out of spite!!!!

:cuss: :cuss: :cuss:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yea, you are paraphrazing what has been said in all PUA material you ever find. Stay cool means be confident. Infact, if you loose your cool, that means you lack confidence and are insecure about something. You've found a way of understanding this thing for yourself. Most posts on here are about different ways different people understand the same thing. You've made it work for you. :yes:
 
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