"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I got a good 5 second hit for a phone number yesterday (see my post in the discussion forum) while on a date! but I blew it with a great looking blond babe. I have to remind myself always to keep sharp & hit for numbers regardless of whether the chick is with a boyfriend, passing by in a club etc. I assumed (big mistake) she was with this dude cause they were dirty dancin on the floor & very friendly. Well I talked to her but totally did not go for the digits. On the dance floor we switched partners & her dude hit up my date for a number! I could kick myself for passin on her. So my point is, sometimes we get lazy or assume things..NEVER assume anything, just go with your standard play regardless of the circumstances & let the chips fall where they may, that way U miss no opportunities like I did last night with that blonde cause I know I coulda got her number. Lesson learned. Poet

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Action is all....words don't mean ****.

Trust your instincts & nothing else.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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