"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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K, off the bat, I don't think I would fuK this girl if she let me but I want to start a freindship with her... so read this and advise me please ;)

Met this girl about three weeks ago while at club, turns out we have mutual freinds....

So bout a week later, I am having drinks with my freind, and she calls him, I tell him to invite her she comes, and we talk over drinks all three of us for about 3 hours... She is giving me all the right body language.. and I'm doing good, I know it.

Fast forward to about a week ago, I ask mey freind to tell her to give me a call as I had not bothered to pick-up her number as she had asked for mine....

So I call her, invite to club, she refuses... no counter-offer...

Three days later, drop in at a coffee shop to get a cup of coffee and use payphone, she is there and invites me for drinks... so we go for drinks me her and 3 of her freinds.

Again, we have a great time, and she says: "it is such a turn-on to find someone you can tlak to... blah, blah,blah." Positive kino going on, her freinds are pleased.... the booze is flowing, etc..

The next day, around 11pm, I stuck with nothing to do as the boys are going to the 50-cent movie and my gf is at home sleeping... so I text her: " Rescue Me! I am bored." or something to that effect... She answers: "are you with the GF? me and the girls are watching scarface... and they don't want to do anything" So I answer: "She home, boys are going to see 50 cent. If you change mind..." She answers: "Thanks :)"

So here is the question: What is the best course of action to befreind this girl.... and by befreind, no I do not meen fuky fuky :p
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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guys,
come on.. :)
 

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Originally posted by JimmyZ
K, off the bat, I don't think I would fuK this girl if she let me but I want to start a freindship with her... so read this and advise me please ;)

Met this girl about three weeks ago while at club, turns out we have mutual freinds....

So bout a week later, I am having drinks with my freind, and she calls him, I tell him to invite her she comes, and we talk over drinks all three of us for about 3 hours... She is giving me all the right body language.. and I'm doing good, I know it.

Fast forward to about a week ago, I ask mey freind to tell her to give me a call as I had not bothered to pick-up her number as she had asked for mine....

So I call her, invite to club, she refuses... no counter-offer...

Three days later, drop in at a coffee shop to get a cup of coffee and use payphone, she is there and invites me for drinks... so we go for drinks me her and 3 of her freinds.

Again, we have a great time, and she says: "it is such a turn-on to find someone you can tlak to... blah, blah,blah." Positive kino going on, her freinds are pleased.... the booze is flowing, etc..

The next day, around 11pm, I stuck with nothing to do as the boys are going to the 50-cent movie and my gf is at home sleeping... so I text her: " Rescue Me! I am bored." or something to that effect... She answers: "are you with the GF? me and the girls are watching scarface... and they don't want to do anything" So I answer: "She home, boys are going to see 50 cent. If you change mind..." She answers: "Thanks :)"

So here is the question: What is the best course of action to befreind this girl.... and by befreind, no I do not meen fuky fuky :p
OMFG!!!! lol

This is one of the funniest things I've read on here.

You come here for advice on how NOT to pick this girl up? :crackup:

#1 why on earth do you need advice on how to be friendly?

and #2 why on earth would you just want to befriend this girl? What's your reason? What's in it for you, by just being friends? I'm confused... very confused.

The best way to be friends with her is to take everything we teach here, and do EXACTLY the opposite. That should get you in her friends zone real quick.

LOL @ this thread
 

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ok, she thinks I want to **** her,

She is being cautious,

How do I disarm her?

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I am happy with current gf, but I seriously enjoy chilling with this this girl....

Catch is she thinks I want to romp and is very defensive....

Question is: How do I make her drop this shield (***** sheild?)
 

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WOW

Like the Canadian said, just be friendly. Dont touch her so she will think you want to be with her. Act like she is a guy. Joke around make fun of or whatever. I have plenty of girl-friends and I know some o them would fu<k me whenever I wanted but I dont. Its called dont shlt where you eat.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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