"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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K, off the bat, I don't think I would fuK this girl if she let me but I want to start a freindship with her... so read this and advise me please ;)

Met this girl about three weeks ago while at club, turns out we have mutual freinds....

So bout a week later, I am having drinks with my freind, and she calls him, I tell him to invite her she comes, and we talk over drinks all three of us for about 3 hours... She is giving me all the right body language.. and I'm doing good, I know it.

Fast forward to about a week ago, I ask mey freind to tell her to give me a call as I had not bothered to pick-up her number as she had asked for mine....

So I call her, invite to club, she refuses... no counter-offer...

Three days later, drop in at a coffee shop to get a cup of coffee and use payphone, she is there and invites me for drinks... so we go for drinks me her and 3 of her freinds.

Again, we have a great time, and she says: "it is such a turn-on to find someone you can tlak to... blah, blah,blah." Positive kino going on, her freinds are pleased.... the booze is flowing, etc..

The next day, around 11pm, I stuck with nothing to do as the boys are going to the 50-cent movie and my gf is at home sleeping... so I text her: " Rescue Me! I am bored." or something to that effect... She answers: "are you with the GF? me and the girls are watching scarface... and they don't want to do anything" So I answer: "She home, boys are going to see 50 cent. If you change mind..." She answers: "Thanks :)"

So here is the question: What is the best course of action to befreind this girl.... and by befreind, no I do not meen fuky fuky :p
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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guys,
come on.. :)
 
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Originally posted by JimmyZ
K, off the bat, I don't think I would fuK this girl if she let me but I want to start a freindship with her... so read this and advise me please ;)

Met this girl about three weeks ago while at club, turns out we have mutual freinds....

So bout a week later, I am having drinks with my freind, and she calls him, I tell him to invite her she comes, and we talk over drinks all three of us for about 3 hours... She is giving me all the right body language.. and I'm doing good, I know it.

Fast forward to about a week ago, I ask mey freind to tell her to give me a call as I had not bothered to pick-up her number as she had asked for mine....

So I call her, invite to club, she refuses... no counter-offer...

Three days later, drop in at a coffee shop to get a cup of coffee and use payphone, she is there and invites me for drinks... so we go for drinks me her and 3 of her freinds.

Again, we have a great time, and she says: "it is such a turn-on to find someone you can tlak to... blah, blah,blah." Positive kino going on, her freinds are pleased.... the booze is flowing, etc..

The next day, around 11pm, I stuck with nothing to do as the boys are going to the 50-cent movie and my gf is at home sleeping... so I text her: " Rescue Me! I am bored." or something to that effect... She answers: "are you with the GF? me and the girls are watching scarface... and they don't want to do anything" So I answer: "She home, boys are going to see 50 cent. If you change mind..." She answers: "Thanks :)"

So here is the question: What is the best course of action to befreind this girl.... and by befreind, no I do not meen fuky fuky :p
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OMFG!!!! lol

This is one of the funniest things I've read on here.

You come here for advice on how NOT to pick this girl up? :crackup:

#1 why on earth do you need advice on how to be friendly?

and #2 why on earth would you just want to befriend this girl? What's your reason? What's in it for you, by just being friends? I'm confused... very confused.

The best way to be friends with her is to take everything we teach here, and do EXACTLY the opposite. That should get you in her friends zone real quick.

LOL @ this thread
 
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ok, she thinks I want to **** her,

She is being cautious,

How do I disarm her?

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I am happy with current gf, but I seriously enjoy chilling with this this girl....

Catch is she thinks I want to romp and is very defensive....

Question is: How do I make her drop this shield (***** sheild?)
 
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WOW

Like the Canadian said, just be friendly. Dont touch her so she will think you want to be with her. Act like she is a guy. Joke around make fun of or whatever. I have plenty of girl-friends and I know some o them would fu<k me whenever I wanted but I dont. Its called dont shlt where you eat.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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