"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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MisterMcGee

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I work with this girl at a movie theatre and, to skip all the details, i'm just wondering what a good way would be to state my intent or interest that wouldn't be too awkward (dont say get her number cause that's obvious, looking for something more effective).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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oakraiderz2

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Uhh...are you f*ckin serious? Why the f*ck do you want to state your intent? Are you making a business proposal? Just get her number and shell get the idea, dude bro.
 

Young Juan

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Obvious is best, women respect balls.
 

daygameguy

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you don't wanna play Romeo and Juliet and freak her as$ out.

Just keep it simple.
 
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