"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MisterMcGee

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I work with this girl at a movie theatre and, to skip all the details, i'm just wondering what a good way would be to state my intent or interest that wouldn't be too awkward (dont say get her number cause that's obvious, looking for something more effective).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oakraiderz2

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Uhh...are you f*ckin serious? Why the f*ck do you want to state your intent? Are you making a business proposal? Just get her number and shell get the idea, dude bro.
 

Young Juan

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Obvious is best, women respect balls.
 

daygameguy

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you don't wanna play Romeo and Juliet and freak her as$ out.

Just keep it simple.
 
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