neobrood
Senior Don Juan
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
State your objective...
- Thread starter neobrood
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ShizamDaMan
Master Don Juan
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The first two objectives are too short sighted IMO. If you're visiting this site for that sole reason then you need to step back and reevaluate your being.
I've came to the point where i was having sex with 3 girls in the same week, going to clubs and getting it a lot, etc..
After like 6 months of great DJ'ing, i think the best i got was to finally get to like a girl, and with my skills make her fall in love with me completly!!
Her kiss tastes better, making love with her is so much better, so when you like someone, its all roses.
Being a player is just a mean to practice to achieve your ultimate love goal.
After like 6 months of great DJ'ing, i think the best i got was to finally get to like a girl, and with my skills make her fall in love with me completly!!
Her kiss tastes better, making love with her is so much better, so when you like someone, its all roses.
Being a player is just a mean to practice to achieve your ultimate love goal.
squirrels
Master Don Juan
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I don't see, "I have no social life and I need an Internet forum to latch on to, and this seems to be the right one since I suck with the ladies as well" anywhere on the options?
Helter Skelter
Master Don Juan
Guess that would fall under "other reason"Originally posted by squirrels
I don't see, "I have no social life and I need an Internet forum to latch on to, and this seems to be the right one since I suck with the ladies as well" anywhere on the options?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.