neobrood
Senior Don Juan
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
State your objective...
- Thread starter neobrood
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ShizamDaMan
Master Don Juan
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The first two objectives are too short sighted IMO. If you're visiting this site for that sole reason then you need to step back and reevaluate your being.
I've came to the point where i was having sex with 3 girls in the same week, going to clubs and getting it a lot, etc..
After like 6 months of great DJ'ing, i think the best i got was to finally get to like a girl, and with my skills make her fall in love with me completly!!
Her kiss tastes better, making love with her is so much better, so when you like someone, its all roses.
Being a player is just a mean to practice to achieve your ultimate love goal.
After like 6 months of great DJ'ing, i think the best i got was to finally get to like a girl, and with my skills make her fall in love with me completly!!
Her kiss tastes better, making love with her is so much better, so when you like someone, its all roses.
Being a player is just a mean to practice to achieve your ultimate love goal.
squirrels
Master Don Juan
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I don't see, "I have no social life and I need an Internet forum to latch on to, and this seems to be the right one since I suck with the ladies as well" anywhere on the options?
Helter Skelter
Master Don Juan
Guess that would fall under "other reason"Originally posted by squirrels
I don't see, "I have no social life and I need an Internet forum to latch on to, and this seems to be the right one since I suck with the ladies as well" anywhere on the options?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.