Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yes you can. It is very slow, but if you do a clean bulk (no junk food and only healthy fats like unsaturated). It can be done.ssj245 said:There is no way that I can gain muscle mass and be on a diet to lose fat at the same time, or can I?
Vegan? That's not good either. You still need animal products. Throw some lean grilled chicken breast (skinless of course) and some skim milk and maybe some lean turkey for balance. Feta cheese is also good.Bible_Belt said:You want to lose weight? Go on a vegan diet
fwiw, I agree. Try this for a week or two, and you will lose weight without having to be hungry. Use a little common sense - for example, many deep fried foods are "vegan" but obviously unhealthy. I think it is worthwhile to avoid hydrogenated oils, so I like the "natural" peanut butter where the oil separates. If you eat like a peasant, you will no longer look like a typical fat American.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DJ HOSSIX said:Run 30-60 mins a day having a 3 day break.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Meanwhile you're stunting your growth at 16. Too bad too, you could've been another inch or two taller if you didn't eat like a moron.shydude said:LMAO!!!!~~~ funny thing is i am on the same diet~!~ been eating like 600 callories a day! And still loosing fat!! and doing cardio!!! ohh it works great!!