Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Yes you can. It is very slow, but if you do a clean bulk (no junk food and only healthy fats like unsaturated). It can be done.ssj245 said:There is no way that I can gain muscle mass and be on a diet to lose fat at the same time, or can I?
Vegan? That's not good either. You still need animal products. Throw some lean grilled chicken breast (skinless of course) and some skim milk and maybe some lean turkey for balance. Feta cheese is also good.Bible_Belt said:You want to lose weight? Go on a vegan diet
fwiw, I agree. Try this for a week or two, and you will lose weight without having to be hungry. Use a little common sense - for example, many deep fried foods are "vegan" but obviously unhealthy. I think it is worthwhile to avoid hydrogenated oils, so I like the "natural" peanut butter where the oil separates. If you eat like a peasant, you will no longer look like a typical fat American.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
DJ HOSSIX said:Run 30-60 mins a day having a 3 day break.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Meanwhile you're stunting your growth at 16. Too bad too, you could've been another inch or two taller if you didn't eat like a moron.shydude said:LMAO!!!!~~~ funny thing is i am on the same diet~!~ been eating like 600 callories a day! And still loosing fat!! and doing cardio!!! ohh it works great!!