"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Startled by 9's and 10's.

Cash

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My game is usually quite tight when im in control.

But occasionally i might get caught off guard when i see a solid 9 looking right at me. I tend to look away as oposed to keeping eye contact or saying something, which then f*cks up your mindset because she just controlled that situation.

Anyone else get this?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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******THIS IS ACTUALLY A SERIOUS TIP, EVEN THOUGH IT MAY SOUND FUNNY!!...WORKS FOR ME EVERYTIME!!****


Just imagine that she just took a fat dump in your bathroom and stuck up the whole house and forgot the flush...or that she just layed a big as$ fart in front of the whole room...

In your mind it takes her off the pedestal right away!, you'll be less nervous instantly because it lowers their attraction...therefore makes them approachable in mind.

because think about it dude...if a girl is super hot and you get nervous...but if she just layed a stinky as$ fart, wouldn't you be way less attracted to her at that moment? Its like when i used to think Jessica Alba was HOT...then i found out she had herpes...and all of a sudden i didn't care for her anymore....i can approach her easily because i now find myself with higher value because i'm disease free.
 

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Ken785 said:
******THIS IS ACTUALLY A SERIOUS TIP, EVEN THOUGH IT MAY SOUND FUNNY!!...WORKS FOR ME EVERYTIME!!****


Just imagine that she just took a fat dump in your bathroom and stuck up the whole house and forgot the flush...or that she just layed a big as$ fart in front of the whole room...

In your mind it takes her off the pedestal right away!, you'll be less nervous instantly because it lowers their attraction...therefore makes them approachable in mind.

because think about it dude...if a girl is super hot and you get nervous...but if she just layed a stinky as$ fart, wouldn't you be way less attracted to her at that moment? Its like when i used to think Jessica Alba was HOT...then i found out she had herpes...and all of a sudden i didn't care for her anymore....i can approach her easily because i now find myself with higher value because i'm disease free.
lmao ill try that also lol.


I admit they are intimidating(sp) to me also. It just takes practice man on not getting nervous infront of them.
 

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Ken785 said:
Its like when i used to think Jessica Alba was HOT...then i found out she had herpes...and all of a sudden i didn't care for her anymore....i can approach her easily because i now find myself with higher value because i'm disease free.
Wow, her now too??? :nervous:
Jessica Alba (before she was Jessica Alba) used to date Derek Jeter, the serial celebrity dater, who plays for the NY Yankees. Well, our source worked for Cash Warren, her ex, and had to refill her Valtrex prescription for her on a regular basis! Guess who she got it from...that's right...dirty Derek Jeter.
You know what this means don't YOU?!! All of his other famous relationships could have contracted the STD TOO! Derek's most famous sexual conquest include Mariah Carey, Jessica Alba, Vanessa Minnillo and most recently Jessica Biel.
Well, 42% of Blacks do have it...and so do all these chix that he fuct! Dang, don't these girls even do their homework?
 

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I don't even bother with 9s and 10s. They're so full of themselves it's not worth the effort.

7s and 8s are enough to make me happy. And they want to work harder in bed to please me and more likely to have nicer personalities and not so many annoying drooling orbiters.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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wayword said:
Wow, her now too??? :nervous:
Well, 42% of Blacks do have it...
Sources?
 

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Ken785 said:
******THIS IS ACTUALLY A SERIOUS TIP, EVEN THOUGH IT MAY SOUND FUNNY!!...WORKS FOR ME EVERYTIME!!****


Just imagine that she just took a fat dump in your bathroom and stuck up the whole house and forgot the flush...or that she just layed a big as$ fart in front of the whole room...

In your mind it takes her off the pedestal right away!, you'll be less nervous instantly because it lowers their attraction...therefore makes them approachable in mind.

because think about it dude...if a girl is super hot and you get nervous...but if she just layed a stinky as$ fart, wouldn't you be way less attracted to her at that moment? Its like when i used to think Jessica Alba was HOT...then i found out she had herpes...and all of a sudden i didn't care for her anymore....i can approach her easily because i now find myself with higher value because i'm disease free.
Yo man i tried it and i actually threw up in my mouth lol
 

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mrRuckus said:
I don't even bother with 9s and 10s. They're so full of themselves it's not worth the effort.

7s and 8s are enough to make me happy. And they want to work harder in bed to please me and more likely to have nicer personalities and not so many annoying drooling orbiters.
That's a bad generalisation to make, some of the nicest, sweetest girls I have known have been 9s, (I am yet to meet a 10). But yer it's true that some of them are like this.
 

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Mr Plow said:
That's a bad generalisation to make, some of the nicest, sweetest girls I have known have been 9s, (I am yet to meet a 10). But yer it's true that some of them are like this.
You're 15 for Gods sake, wait another 5 years then tell us how nice 9's are.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Cash said:
My game is usually quite tight when im in control.

But occasionally i might get caught off guard when i see a solid 9 looking right at me. I tend to look away as oposed to keeping eye contact or saying something, which then f*cks up your mindset because she just controlled that situation.

Anyone else get this?
Because you see yourself as inferior. Try to get past that. Just wink at them.
 
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