"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Startled by 9's and 10's.

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My game is usually quite tight when im in control.

But occasionally i might get caught off guard when i see a solid 9 looking right at me. I tend to look away as oposed to keeping eye contact or saying something, which then f*cks up your mindset because she just controlled that situation.

Anyone else get this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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******THIS IS ACTUALLY A SERIOUS TIP, EVEN THOUGH IT MAY SOUND FUNNY!!...WORKS FOR ME EVERYTIME!!****


Just imagine that she just took a fat dump in your bathroom and stuck up the whole house and forgot the flush...or that she just layed a big as$ fart in front of the whole room...

In your mind it takes her off the pedestal right away!, you'll be less nervous instantly because it lowers their attraction...therefore makes them approachable in mind.

because think about it dude...if a girl is super hot and you get nervous...but if she just layed a stinky as$ fart, wouldn't you be way less attracted to her at that moment? Its like when i used to think Jessica Alba was HOT...then i found out she had herpes...and all of a sudden i didn't care for her anymore....i can approach her easily because i now find myself with higher value because i'm disease free.
 

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Ken785 said:
******THIS IS ACTUALLY A SERIOUS TIP, EVEN THOUGH IT MAY SOUND FUNNY!!...WORKS FOR ME EVERYTIME!!****


Just imagine that she just took a fat dump in your bathroom and stuck up the whole house and forgot the flush...or that she just layed a big as$ fart in front of the whole room...

In your mind it takes her off the pedestal right away!, you'll be less nervous instantly because it lowers their attraction...therefore makes them approachable in mind.

because think about it dude...if a girl is super hot and you get nervous...but if she just layed a stinky as$ fart, wouldn't you be way less attracted to her at that moment? Its like when i used to think Jessica Alba was HOT...then i found out she had herpes...and all of a sudden i didn't care for her anymore....i can approach her easily because i now find myself with higher value because i'm disease free.
lmao ill try that also lol.


I admit they are intimidating(sp) to me also. It just takes practice man on not getting nervous infront of them.
 

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Ken785 said:
Its like when i used to think Jessica Alba was HOT...then i found out she had herpes...and all of a sudden i didn't care for her anymore....i can approach her easily because i now find myself with higher value because i'm disease free.
Wow, her now too??? :nervous:
Jessica Alba (before she was Jessica Alba) used to date Derek Jeter, the serial celebrity dater, who plays for the NY Yankees. Well, our source worked for Cash Warren, her ex, and had to refill her Valtrex prescription for her on a regular basis! Guess who she got it from...that's right...dirty Derek Jeter.
You know what this means don't YOU?!! All of his other famous relationships could have contracted the STD TOO! Derek's most famous sexual conquest include Mariah Carey, Jessica Alba, Vanessa Minnillo and most recently Jessica Biel.
Well, 42% of Blacks do have it...and so do all these chix that he fuct! Dang, don't these girls even do their homework?
 

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I don't even bother with 9s and 10s. They're so full of themselves it's not worth the effort.

7s and 8s are enough to make me happy. And they want to work harder in bed to please me and more likely to have nicer personalities and not so many annoying drooling orbiters.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wayword said:
Wow, her now too??? :nervous:
Well, 42% of Blacks do have it...
Sources?
 

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Ken785 said:
******THIS IS ACTUALLY A SERIOUS TIP, EVEN THOUGH IT MAY SOUND FUNNY!!...WORKS FOR ME EVERYTIME!!****


Just imagine that she just took a fat dump in your bathroom and stuck up the whole house and forgot the flush...or that she just layed a big as$ fart in front of the whole room...

In your mind it takes her off the pedestal right away!, you'll be less nervous instantly because it lowers their attraction...therefore makes them approachable in mind.

because think about it dude...if a girl is super hot and you get nervous...but if she just layed a stinky as$ fart, wouldn't you be way less attracted to her at that moment? Its like when i used to think Jessica Alba was HOT...then i found out she had herpes...and all of a sudden i didn't care for her anymore....i can approach her easily because i now find myself with higher value because i'm disease free.
Yo man i tried it and i actually threw up in my mouth lol
 

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mrRuckus said:
I don't even bother with 9s and 10s. They're so full of themselves it's not worth the effort.

7s and 8s are enough to make me happy. And they want to work harder in bed to please me and more likely to have nicer personalities and not so many annoying drooling orbiters.
That's a bad generalisation to make, some of the nicest, sweetest girls I have known have been 9s, (I am yet to meet a 10). But yer it's true that some of them are like this.
 

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Mr Plow said:
That's a bad generalisation to make, some of the nicest, sweetest girls I have known have been 9s, (I am yet to meet a 10). But yer it's true that some of them are like this.
You're 15 for Gods sake, wait another 5 years then tell us how nice 9's are.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cash said:
My game is usually quite tight when im in control.

But occasionally i might get caught off guard when i see a solid 9 looking right at me. I tend to look away as oposed to keeping eye contact or saying something, which then f*cks up your mindset because she just controlled that situation.

Anyone else get this?
Because you see yourself as inferior. Try to get past that. Just wink at them.
 
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