"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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starting to lose faith in djbible... what's wrong with acting AFC?

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Hey OP...

I can't respond to your whole post though I just wrote a gargantuan essay on this thread only to delete it just now...

But anyway, I actually don't agree with most of the "alpha male" stuff because guys have it COMPLETELY wrong, to a funny extent really. It seems guys mistake it for being a guy who goes to the gym every day lifting weights and wearing shades at nighttime and stuff like that. In fact it's become so closely associated with such things that I now absolutely hate that term. Well actually it's probably not far off, in terms of, most of the guys who DO THAT NATURALLY BECAUSE IT'S A PART OF THEIR PERSONALITY/SOUL/HEART/WHATEVER TERM YOU USE are alpha males, but it's not about going to the gym and watching "UFC HU-AH!!!" it's about the confidence you have in yourself with the PERSONALITY YOU ALREADY HAVE. Just remember if you watch star trek or some nerdy **** like that, just don't bring it up.

One thing to do when talking to a girl you like is to be playful and teasing, make fun of her in non-offensive ways. If she laughs and hits you on the arm you are about 25% of the way to banging her just for one thing like that xD It's not ****y & funny, you don't mention yourself, it's teasing funny. I guess it's ****y & funny in the sense you are confident in yourself to be able to do it, but it's not making wise cracks about how handsome you are or whatever. To give an example, I was talking to some guys at school earlier, I was talking about these tests they have for the less-able students (lol, the dunce tests basically) and then this girl said she failed them 3 times, and I was like "LOL! Oh! I was about to call them the retard-tests but I guess I shouldn't say that now xD!" And she laughed and was like "oiiii!" and hit me.

I'm tired, it's late and I can't concentrate too much more but if you have an actual question (I know you did ask some but they seemed like they'd take too long to answer so sorry about that :p) just post it and I'll reply tomorrow.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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