MurdocNiccals
Don Juan
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Hey OP...
I can't respond to your whole post though I just wrote a gargantuan essay on this thread only to delete it just now...
But anyway, I actually don't agree with most of the "alpha male" stuff because guys have it COMPLETELY wrong, to a funny extent really. It seems guys mistake it for being a guy who goes to the gym every day lifting weights and wearing shades at nighttime and stuff like that. In fact it's become so closely associated with such things that I now absolutely hate that term. Well actually it's probably not far off, in terms of, most of the guys who DO THAT NATURALLY BECAUSE IT'S A PART OF THEIR PERSONALITY/SOUL/HEART/WHATEVER TERM YOU USE are alpha males, but it's not about going to the gym and watching "UFC HU-AH!!!" it's about the confidence you have in yourself with the PERSONALITY YOU ALREADY HAVE. Just remember if you watch star trek or some nerdy **** like that, just don't bring it up.
One thing to do when talking to a girl you like is to be playful and teasing, make fun of her in non-offensive ways. If she laughs and hits you on the arm you are about 25% of the way to banging her just for one thing like that xD It's not ****y & funny, you don't mention yourself, it's teasing funny. I guess it's ****y & funny in the sense you are confident in yourself to be able to do it, but it's not making wise cracks about how handsome you are or whatever. To give an example, I was talking to some guys at school earlier, I was talking about these tests they have for the less-able students (lol, the dunce tests basically) and then this girl said she failed them 3 times, and I was like "LOL! Oh! I was about to call them the retard-tests but I guess I shouldn't say that now xD!" And she laughed and was like "oiiii!" and hit me.
I'm tired, it's late and I can't concentrate too much more but if you have an actual question (I know you did ask some but they seemed like they'd take too long to answer so sorry about that
) just post it and I'll reply tomorrow.
I can't respond to your whole post though I just wrote a gargantuan essay on this thread only to delete it just now...
But anyway, I actually don't agree with most of the "alpha male" stuff because guys have it COMPLETELY wrong, to a funny extent really. It seems guys mistake it for being a guy who goes to the gym every day lifting weights and wearing shades at nighttime and stuff like that. In fact it's become so closely associated with such things that I now absolutely hate that term. Well actually it's probably not far off, in terms of, most of the guys who DO THAT NATURALLY BECAUSE IT'S A PART OF THEIR PERSONALITY/SOUL/HEART/WHATEVER TERM YOU USE are alpha males, but it's not about going to the gym and watching "UFC HU-AH!!!" it's about the confidence you have in yourself with the PERSONALITY YOU ALREADY HAVE. Just remember if you watch star trek or some nerdy **** like that, just don't bring it up.
One thing to do when talking to a girl you like is to be playful and teasing, make fun of her in non-offensive ways. If she laughs and hits you on the arm you are about 25% of the way to banging her just for one thing like that xD It's not ****y & funny, you don't mention yourself, it's teasing funny. I guess it's ****y & funny in the sense you are confident in yourself to be able to do it, but it's not making wise cracks about how handsome you are or whatever. To give an example, I was talking to some guys at school earlier, I was talking about these tests they have for the less-able students (lol, the dunce tests basically) and then this girl said she failed them 3 times, and I was like "LOL! Oh! I was about to call them the retard-tests but I guess I shouldn't say that now xD!" And she laughed and was like "oiiii!" and hit me.
I'm tired, it's late and I can't concentrate too much more but if you have an actual question (I know you did ask some but they seemed like they'd take too long to answer so sorry about that
) just post it and I'll reply tomorrow.