SeymourCake
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Any Don Juan advice and tips would be great.
Thanks in advance.
Thanks in advance.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Starting Spring semester tomorrow in college
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Upside
Senior Don Juan
Yeah, hit the books. Squandering the chance to learn something and make use of it will garner bigger regrets than missing a date.
JohnChops
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Seriously school over women for me all day. I try to talk to women while I'm at school but I'm usually so in my head from studying its just so hard.
I'm starting second semester as well. Last year I knuckled down for my exams in the first 2 weeks, and then we had re-freshers, basically 2 weeks after exams without lectures where I went wild and had a great time meeting even more people.
Once the exams are out of the way it's generally a lot of fun. Obviously keep studying, I've found the best way to do this is to do some work in the morning up until say 2 or 3 oclock and then take the rest of the day off, obviously accounting for lectures and stuff.
I go out twice a week minimum usually and have had no real problems keeping up with uni-work.
My main tip is to keep having fun, you probably already have some friends from first semester to go out with, start meeting their other friends and try expanding your social circle even more, that's what I did and it helped loads.
Also if there was a club or society you wanted to join at the start of the year or you've decided you want to give a try since arriving roll up to one of the sessions in the new year, there's always new people joining about this time.
Hope this helps a bit
Gunner
Once the exams are out of the way it's generally a lot of fun. Obviously keep studying, I've found the best way to do this is to do some work in the morning up until say 2 or 3 oclock and then take the rest of the day off, obviously accounting for lectures and stuff.
I go out twice a week minimum usually and have had no real problems keeping up with uni-work.
My main tip is to keep having fun, you probably already have some friends from first semester to go out with, start meeting their other friends and try expanding your social circle even more, that's what I did and it helped loads.
Also if there was a club or society you wanted to join at the start of the year or you've decided you want to give a try since arriving roll up to one of the sessions in the new year, there's always new people joining about this time.
Hope this helps a bit
Gunner
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.