SeymourCake
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Any Don Juan advice and tips would be great.
Thanks in advance.
Thanks in advance.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Starting Spring semester tomorrow in college
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Upside
Senior Don Juan
Yeah, hit the books. Squandering the chance to learn something and make use of it will garner bigger regrets than missing a date.
JohnChops
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Seriously school over women for me all day. I try to talk to women while I'm at school but I'm usually so in my head from studying its just so hard.
I'm starting second semester as well. Last year I knuckled down for my exams in the first 2 weeks, and then we had re-freshers, basically 2 weeks after exams without lectures where I went wild and had a great time meeting even more people.
Once the exams are out of the way it's generally a lot of fun. Obviously keep studying, I've found the best way to do this is to do some work in the morning up until say 2 or 3 oclock and then take the rest of the day off, obviously accounting for lectures and stuff.
I go out twice a week minimum usually and have had no real problems keeping up with uni-work.
My main tip is to keep having fun, you probably already have some friends from first semester to go out with, start meeting their other friends and try expanding your social circle even more, that's what I did and it helped loads.
Also if there was a club or society you wanted to join at the start of the year or you've decided you want to give a try since arriving roll up to one of the sessions in the new year, there's always new people joining about this time.
Hope this helps a bit
Gunner
Once the exams are out of the way it's generally a lot of fun. Obviously keep studying, I've found the best way to do this is to do some work in the morning up until say 2 or 3 oclock and then take the rest of the day off, obviously accounting for lectures and stuff.
I go out twice a week minimum usually and have had no real problems keeping up with uni-work.
My main tip is to keep having fun, you probably already have some friends from first semester to go out with, start meeting their other friends and try expanding your social circle even more, that's what I did and it helped loads.
Also if there was a club or society you wanted to join at the start of the year or you've decided you want to give a try since arriving roll up to one of the sessions in the new year, there's always new people joining about this time.
Hope this helps a bit
Gunner
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.