SeymourCake
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Any Don Juan advice and tips would be great.
Thanks in advance.
Thanks in advance.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Starting Spring semester tomorrow in college
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Upside
Senior Don Juan
Yeah, hit the books. Squandering the chance to learn something and make use of it will garner bigger regrets than missing a date.
JohnChops
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Seriously school over women for me all day. I try to talk to women while I'm at school but I'm usually so in my head from studying its just so hard.
I'm starting second semester as well. Last year I knuckled down for my exams in the first 2 weeks, and then we had re-freshers, basically 2 weeks after exams without lectures where I went wild and had a great time meeting even more people.
Once the exams are out of the way it's generally a lot of fun. Obviously keep studying, I've found the best way to do this is to do some work in the morning up until say 2 or 3 oclock and then take the rest of the day off, obviously accounting for lectures and stuff.
I go out twice a week minimum usually and have had no real problems keeping up with uni-work.
My main tip is to keep having fun, you probably already have some friends from first semester to go out with, start meeting their other friends and try expanding your social circle even more, that's what I did and it helped loads.
Also if there was a club or society you wanted to join at the start of the year or you've decided you want to give a try since arriving roll up to one of the sessions in the new year, there's always new people joining about this time.
Hope this helps a bit
Gunner
Once the exams are out of the way it's generally a lot of fun. Obviously keep studying, I've found the best way to do this is to do some work in the morning up until say 2 or 3 oclock and then take the rest of the day off, obviously accounting for lectures and stuff.
I go out twice a week minimum usually and have had no real problems keeping up with uni-work.
My main tip is to keep having fun, you probably already have some friends from first semester to go out with, start meeting their other friends and try expanding your social circle even more, that's what I did and it helped loads.
Also if there was a club or society you wanted to join at the start of the year or you've decided you want to give a try since arriving roll up to one of the sessions in the new year, there's always new people joining about this time.
Hope this helps a bit
Gunner
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.