"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Starting Smolov tomorrow.

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12/6/09 - Friday

Burgener Warmup

Front Squat
5x4 - 85

Military Press
5x 40
2x3 50

Jerk
2x 60
1x 65
1x 70

15/6/09 - Monday

Overhead Squat
5x 40
3x 60
4x 60
3x 60

Front Squat
4x 90
1x 100
1x 102.5 PR

Spine Decompressor

Bench
5x 40
5x 60
2x5 - 70
5x 60
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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YEahhhhh...

18/6/09 - Thursday

Burgener Warmup Variation.

Snatch
1x 40 + 3 OH squat
1x 45 + 3 OH squat
1x 50 + 3 OH squat
1x 55
1x 57.5 PR
3x 60 - Missed all 3 attempts, got very close on the last attempt - oh well. 1 PR is great!

Deadlifts
5x 60
5x 80
5x 100
2x5 120
1x 130

Spine decompressor + lunges.

And outta there! :woo:
 

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One month onwards.

Joined a proper weightlifting gym - worked on techniques on the C&J, and the Snatch.

Strength exercise after power exercise.

Front squat
105 PR - tested after a back squat set - felt like I could do add 5kg, but I'll try again next fortnight.

Jerks - need to work on feet position and landing position.
80 PR

Deadlift
130 x 5 PR
 

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hey man good to see your still hacking away in my absence - you seem to have been put off doing back squats ? love to see a PR up soon
 

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Another few weeks on: back to basics

Deadlift
140 x 3 PR

Bench - havnt done these is sooo long.
5x4 - 67.5

Squat
5x5 - 120
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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18/8/09 - at last

Snatch (technique work again)
5x3 - 40

C&J
3x 45
3x 50
1x 60
1x 70
1x 80kg Clean only PR

Spine Decompressor

Pullups

I remembered when 60 was heavy. I will remember when 80 is heavy. Next Goal: 82.5!
 
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