"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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guys im having trouble starting over this is the story... there was this girl before i learnt the way of the don juan's ;) i was totally AFC with her kissed her ass called her non-stop, i bascially lived for her, now i've learnt the way i wanna get her properly, is their any possible way i can start over with her like from new or do i have to just next her any suggestions would be aprecited cheers

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by gOLDENBoy83
According to the Ladder Theory, you're most probably on the "LJBF" ladder and it's very hard if not almost impossible (especially for an AFC or rAFC) to make a ladder jumb to the "potential sex mate" ladder.

However, you don't have anything to lose if you change the way you treat her radically. From my limited knowledge I'd suggest to use neg hits and show here in general that you are a bit too good for her.

If it doesn't work, next her and keep looking for other girls.
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Good advice! Goldenboy, your coming along nicely!

P.S Goldenboy, forgot to ask, why the nic? R u an Oscar De La Hoya fan? Thats the only time I have heard Goldenboy before?
 
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hey nin, if you have a new approach, why bother with her?
she will always remember you for the chump you used to be.

you have new skills now, so but them to good use. once a chickie gets the ball in her court, you never get it back. NEVER
 
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It can be done Nin, but it's not easy. It works best when alot of time has passed (often years) and she see's you differently now because of intervening experiences.
In any case, you attract her with the good things she remembers about you (most people forget the bad pretty quickly) but then you must apply your new standards of conduct (more DJ like) to make things work. Believe me, she'll like you alot better without the desperation and clinging !
 
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